Stupid male creature!!! arrrrrgh

[ladyjayne]

Why is it that jsut as you tell them to leave you alone, they decide they dont want to.
My Husband left me just under a month ago now, saying that he didnt know if he loved me anymore (we've only been together 4 years ) and wanted to think, he moved out and back in to the block (he's with the army) and he'd call and text occasionally and come and see Finn in the first week, but was completely messing with my head, one min telling me that theres always hope for us and the next saying it wont work and that he doesnt have it in him to try anymore. I kissed him and he said he felt nothing. So I agreed to give him his space and time to think, while he went on excercise. He sent me the odd message while hes been away asking how i am and how finn is, but giving me no indication of what he's thinking.
Anyway in this time i've been seing a counsellor and she made me see that i've been through a lot this year that I needed his support through and instead of giving it to me, he shut off and now he's walked away. So on Friday I told him that I didnt want to hear from him for the next week so that i had time to consider our relationship and actually think about if i want him back or not. BUt NOOOOOOOOOOO controling men just cant leave it cant they!!! He's text me and tried to call me, saying that he's now made some decions, not telling me what they are, and asked me to go for dinner with him. Why do they have to play mind games!!! I replyed to his message, simply saying that i gave him his time to think, now its my time so leave me too it! I'm very proud of myself. ITS MY TURN TO HAVE THE POWER!!!!!!! stillll arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrg men.

Thank you if you get through this, just really had to let it all out!!! x

 

[Mincholada]

sending you a big hug! yes, they all like to play mind games. it is so bloody aggravating!!!!!

 

[Rhio92]

The best feeling in the world, when you realise you're the one with the power at last!

 

[bailey4eva]

That feelin is great when you finally stick up for urself wen u know damn rite ur in the rite to do it! You sound strong enough to deal with the idiot to be honest, hes the one missing out and it will hit him in the face one day, you just stick to ur guns and do whats best for u and Finn. He can work around you for once! Yay girl power lol x

 

[luckdragon]

Bloody men they are terrible for that!!! i'd just sack him right off, you will be much happier

 

[young-mummy]

my ex was is in the army too, i personally think the army has alot to play with the way they are, altho my brother is in the army too, i do believe the army tuffens them up too much which they 100% need for there job but also use it with us. i have just told my ex that this is my time to do what i want - but i feel rubbish because i never ever want to have to see him again x