Sucessful Stories...PLEAZEEE!!

[Hey_Beautiful]

How many of you have had IB at (or around) 9dpo (of which I have seen spots here and there for two and half days) but then went on to have a bfp?? I tested yesterday at (11dpo) which I understand can be a bit early - but it was a BFN. Please respond with encouragement...

 

[zanDark]

I'm pretty sure the ladies in the other 7 (to be exact) sections you posted this exact same thread in will be more helpful seeing as this is the LTTTC section...long term trying to conceive?..and these type of threads don't really have a place here...not to mention that it's inconsiderate and inappropriate seeing as most of us have never had a BFP... ever...

Please be more considerate of where you're posting next time you spam the boards with your repeat threads.

 

[Hey_Beautiful]

Honey - I am trying to conceive ...just like you.
I am looking for words of encouragement to help me through my time and need uplifting during my 2ww. I Pray that you find peace with your situation, and wish nothing but baby dust your way as we are ALL in the same boat of trying to have a baby (whether it be 2 months of TTC or 2 years). May the Lord Bless you and keep you...

I'm pretty sure the ladies in the other 7 (to be exact) sections you posted this exact same thread in will be more helpful seeing as this is the LTTTC section...long term trying to conceive?..and these type of threads don't really have a place here...not to mention that it's inconsiderate and inappropriate seeing as most of us have never had a BFP... ever...

Please be more considerate of where you're posting next time you spam the boards with your repeat threads.

 

[zanDark]

Thank you for your kind words. I hope the same for you, I really do.

But I find this thread to be inappropriate and insulting for this section since it's not for everyone TTC...but for people TTC'ing for years and without children...(there is a secondary infertility section above for women that are ltttc their second child) so not a lot of people in this section have gotten a bfp to be able to offer helpful advice, and it's just a reminder for most of us that we've never seen a second line in all the years we've been trying. Most of us here avoid the other TTC forums like the plague because of threads like these.

There is a difference between ttc for 2 months and ttc for 2 years which is why there are separate TTC forums

I hope you get your bfp which will lead to a healthy pregnancy and your beautiful second child. All I ask is that you think of others before you post.

 

[Armywife84]

To be honest, I would post this in the Success Stories thread of LTTC if you are indeed LTTC #2.

Ladies in LTTC and LTTC #2 have NOT gotten their and really don't know if they ever will.

And yes their IS a MAJOR difference between TTC 2 months vs. LTTC 2 years. Unfortunately our boat is separate from yours and with holes about to sink because we're dealing with infertility!

 

[zanDark]

and I apologize if I came across as a total bitch...I really do because you seem like a lovely person, but some days like today are really difficult. It's officially mothers day now + I'm PMSing

 

[No Doubt]

I don't think anyone meant to be inconsiderate, and yes it's easy to see all perspectives.

Hey beautiful...unfortuantely a lot of us have not had a bfp ever so we won't be able to offer you advice. I think this is where the other ladies were going (correct me if I'm wrong ladies). There is a Second infertility forum where some women may be able to give you an answer or the success stories forum may help. Hope this is it for you...GL!

I also understand why you asked the question in so many forums (yes I've seen it too) cause sometimes when we post we don't hear anything back. I went through that when I first joined bnb. Sorry you didn't get the repsonses you were looking for, but some of the forums you posted in weren't the right ones so that could be why you didn't get the responses you wanted in some forums.

Try the forums I/some of the other ladies posted in and if those don't work, try some where women are preggo or have had children.

Just so you know, no harm, no foul. Still hoping this is your bfp! Infertility strikes whether you've had children or not, so it's understandable why you asked the question here as well. GL!

 

[Hey_Beautiful]

No Doubt: THANK YOU - your kind words are greatly appreciated. You know exactly where I was coming from, and used great tact in advising me on how to proceed. True, I have one child and he is 16 years old. When he was 5 years old, his Father died in a car accident. I got married last year and want nothing more than to have a baby with my Dear Husband. Since I had been on birth control for 16 years, I am having a hard time trying to regulate my cycle, and I will be going on a year of trying to conceive in a few months. Again, thank you for your kind words - your thoughtfulness is greatly appreciated. Have a Blessed day - Baby Dust to all...

I don't think anyone meant to be inconsiderate, and yes it's easy to see all perspectives.

Hey beautiful...unfortuantely a lot of us have not had a bfp ever so we won't be able to offer you advice. I think this is where the other ladies were going (correct me if I'm wrong ladies). There is a Second infertility forum where some women may be able to give you an answer or the success stories forum may help. Hope this is it for you...GL!

I also understand why you asked the question in so many forums (yes I've seen it too) cause sometimes when we post we don't hear anything back. I went through that when I first joined bnb. Sorry you didn't get the repsonses you were looking for, but some of the forums you posted in weren't the right ones so that could be why you didn't get the responses you wanted in some forums.

Try the forums I/some of the other ladies posted in and if those don't work, try some where women are preggo or have had children.

Just so you know, no harm, no foul. Still hoping this is your bfp! Infertility strikes whether you've had children or not, so it's understandable why you asked the question here as well. GL!