goddess25
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Ok so many of you know I have been lurking here for awhile and WTT #2. I had decided that Feb would be a good time, little one would be 1 and have to get on with things in regards to my age. However my DH is putting his foot down at the moment and saying that its not the right thing to do timing wise and he doesnt want to try.
I am disappointed but I can see his point, but am still hoping he will change his mind.
Our scenario is we live in Canada but we are both from Scotland. We have lived here for just over 3 years and we still have not settled, we have bought our house and we have had a baby but we are still longing for something else. We are both homesick in terms of missing parents and friends, but we dont want to really live in Scotland again. We are thinking about heading to the the North of our province or perhaps to the East coast, and he doesnt think its good to introduce a new baby when we are both trying to figure out what to do. We are heading to the UK in Jan for a vacation and are going to make up our minds about what to do afterwards.
Our other issue is we cannot find childcare for our current child and i am either going to have to work casual or DH is going to have to ask for a leave of abscence.. I am an RN, OH is a bus driver so we both work crazy shifts but just cant work anything out, its too hard. I am due back at work in Feb.
So basically he thinks we will be adding more stress onto our current situations if we added another baby into the mix. I have told him that i will be 36 when i most likely concieve and we cant really afford to wait around until we both get our heads together. I dont think having another baby is going to make too much difference to be honest. Dont get me wrong we are very happy together and he absolutely adores his little boy, and i know he will be happy with another too.
What do you think either way. Any suggestions to get him to come round. At the moment I am still planning on Feb and am continuing to take folic acid, and remain hopeful.
I am disappointed but I can see his point, but am still hoping he will change his mind.
Our scenario is we live in Canada but we are both from Scotland. We have lived here for just over 3 years and we still have not settled, we have bought our house and we have had a baby but we are still longing for something else. We are both homesick in terms of missing parents and friends, but we dont want to really live in Scotland again. We are thinking about heading to the the North of our province or perhaps to the East coast, and he doesnt think its good to introduce a new baby when we are both trying to figure out what to do. We are heading to the UK in Jan for a vacation and are going to make up our minds about what to do afterwards.
Our other issue is we cannot find childcare for our current child and i am either going to have to work casual or DH is going to have to ask for a leave of abscence.. I am an RN, OH is a bus driver so we both work crazy shifts but just cant work anything out, its too hard. I am due back at work in Feb.
So basically he thinks we will be adding more stress onto our current situations if we added another baby into the mix. I have told him that i will be 36 when i most likely concieve and we cant really afford to wait around until we both get our heads together. I dont think having another baby is going to make too much difference to be honest. Dont get me wrong we are very happy together and he absolutely adores his little boy, and i know he will be happy with another too.
What do you think either way. Any suggestions to get him to come round. At the moment I am still planning on Feb and am continuing to take folic acid, and remain hopeful.