Super Paranoid

[My_First]

I dont know whether ist just because its my first or maybe a little bit of this forum, and a little bit of google, but I am super paranoid that I will not be pregnant when I go for my 12 week scan.

I went for a private one at 8 weeks, and all was hunky dorey, saw a heart beat and a blob.

BUt I want to go again, just to check...

If I had all the money in the world, I reckon I would be going every week..

Am I being neurotic..I know I am really and the OH doesn't get it..

 

[dannyboygirl]

Dont think of all the bad.Try to think positive n remember we all are different n come from diffferent situations.. You will be okay too many ultrasounds arent good. Have Faith you will be okay.Eat right and exercise to keep the bad off your mind

 

[DawnMN26]

I'm a worrier too, i'm sure u will be fine!!!
Everything will be ok.
Its worse for baby if ur stressed out, so try not to stress.
I know its easier said than done!!

 

[Armywife]

Awww honey don't worry, it's normal to feel this way. I'd be there every day if i could! Just try to stay calm and think positive xxx

 

[Dan]

I am paranoia QUEEN!!!! Dreaming about my scan (2 weeks today!) that I go there and they can't find anything or something awful. There's no escape from the worry! Trying very hard to chill and enjoy the journey but it's easier said than done right?!

You are not alone my lovely!

xx

 

[SP1306]

I am exactly the same! I had a scan at 7w3d as doc was convinced I was further along than I thought and all was good, got my 12wk scan on 14/9 but as well I am SO worried that something is wrong.

I think it doesn't help that I read all the sad stories on here and that you can MC and not know! I don't think I 'stress' out about it but it is on my mind!

I hope that we all have a happy and healthy 7 remaining months and I will def be posting my happy story, hopefully!!!!

xxxxxxxxxx

 

[BabySnowie]

I am the same honey, I know im pregnant, I cant deny the sore boobies, the peeing every 2 mins and the sickness! but I cant shake the feeling that i'll get scanned and they tell me ive made a mistake.

Ive seen the midwife for first app and shes requested a quicker scan date as I think I might be further on than I originally thought, but still havent got a scan date nearly 2 weeks later.

I know we will all be okay when the day comes for the scan and we can come back and tell everyone here how amazing the day was!

thinking of all you ladies when this day comes xx

 

[LucBumpy10]

I'm so so so paranoid! I'm driving my OH mad! I am so worried that I get to the screening centre for my scan and something has happened! I've had two scans now and both have being really strong and postive!
x

 

[Torianna]

This is my second and the more time I spend on here, the more woried I become! Have to try to remember that staying positive is better than thinking of what could go wrong x

 

[Emmysmommy]

Hon if there was something wrong you would know! I know that it's hard and that you picture everything going wrong, especially with your first, but everything will be okay. I was that way with my daughter and this time around I am just taking it one day at a time and knowing that no symptoms doesn't mean anything bad. After about 15-16 weeks when you can start feeling the baby's movements it will make it easier on you. Try to relax. Take a mildly warm bubble bath and don't stress too much!

 

[Katie Mc]

my 1st scan is a week tomorrow and I cant wait, I keep thinking theres no baby in there.This is my 3rd and I was like that over them as well. I will cry with relief when I see my little babys heartbeat on the screen.

 

[Janeysaney]

I totally felt like that too! But I finally had my first scan and we saw the baby, so grateful! I would've probably had a private scan done, but DH and I are trying to save up as much as we could, if it was up to me I'd prob have one every week lol. We just gotta think of the positive. I was discussing with one my friends who had a baby last year and she said she never thought negatively, her baby was fine. I think that should apply to all of us, we've just gotta enjoy our pregnancies, we might end up not enjoying one the best bonding times with our child and then regret it later on! Think POSITIVE and hopefully all will be fine.