berrukins
Mommy to 2
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It's nice to hear all your partners are so supportive!
Previously, I've never really thought about having babies cuz I was terrified of juggling a baby & work, and also there is a possibility we might relocate in the coming years. But I know my DH wants kids, and he's sooo hoping we have a daughter! He doesn't know all the nitty gritty details about my cycles, but over the years, he's put up with my PMS mood swings, my whining about period cramps & how you-men-have-it-better gripes.
He's pretty laid-back & relaxed about the whole TTC'ing process so far, he used to think it isn't a problem getting pregnant (yeah, in your teens maybe) but he's now finally realizing it's not as easy as he thought it was!! He thought once I'm off the pill, the babies would just happen ... but nope! I see him making a small effort to read up on improving his spermies quality & checking in with me on my possible O dates, so he can be "prepared". Apart from that, he pretty much leaves me alone to obsess myself. He's more excited about buying the stroller, the baby car seat & baby names!
I asked him if he was disappointed with the BFN after our 1st cycle, he's realistic to know that things won't happen so quickly but mentioned that if we keep getting BFNs consecutively after 5-6 cycles, he will be gutted. I really really hope not ...
Previously, I've never really thought about having babies cuz I was terrified of juggling a baby & work, and also there is a possibility we might relocate in the coming years. But I know my DH wants kids, and he's sooo hoping we have a daughter! He doesn't know all the nitty gritty details about my cycles, but over the years, he's put up with my PMS mood swings, my whining about period cramps & how you-men-have-it-better gripes.
He's pretty laid-back & relaxed about the whole TTC'ing process so far, he used to think it isn't a problem getting pregnant (yeah, in your teens maybe) but he's now finally realizing it's not as easy as he thought it was!! He thought once I'm off the pill, the babies would just happen ... but nope! I see him making a small effort to read up on improving his spermies quality & checking in with me on my possible O dates, so he can be "prepared". Apart from that, he pretty much leaves me alone to obsess myself. He's more excited about buying the stroller, the baby car seat & baby names!
I asked him if he was disappointed with the BFN after our 1st cycle, he's realistic to know that things won't happen so quickly but mentioned that if we keep getting BFNs consecutively after 5-6 cycles, he will be gutted. I really really hope not ...
