teen moms

[Beth_18]

im 26weeks preg and still with the babies dad we have our ups and down x x x

 

[Laura--x]

I am . 3 years in april x

 

[vicky9207]

im still with my babys dad. 3 1/2 years

 

[Becky]

were still together (god knows how)

x

 

[Ilovemybaby]

awh you all are so cute.

 

[aidensxmomma]

I'm still with my son's father. It will be two years in May. We had only been back together for 2 weeks when I got pregnant, so it's got to say something that he's still stuck by my side. We plan on getting married and having more kids soon.

 

[heather91]

I'm still with my OH and can't see us breaking up at all. We adore eachother, even if we do argue about stupid things sometimes. Lets hope it stays like this after LO is born! x

 

[Luhweez]

not me, as of last night! FREEDOM! i love him to pieces like but it was getting really draining, always snapping at eachother during the night when lexi wakes up cause we're tired then those hard feelings are stuck during the day even though we apoligise.

 

[TashaAndBump]

I am not a teen any more, but I was 18 when we got pregnant. We are married and live together - love each other more and more with each and every passing day

Realistically, every couple has their troubles and their 'shit' (for lack of a better word) that they face - the couples that make it long time are not the ones who have no shit, they are the ones who team up together and work through that shit in the best way... Sometimes staying together really can be hard work, but if you are prepared to take the bad times with the good and reach compromises and support each other rather than just depending on either the other or yourself, then that is what will make it work - it can be very rewarding. Fairytale stuff in the real world comes from the conviction that you want to stay each other, love that overcomes all trials only does so because the people loving are prepared to put the effort in TO overcome said trials. That is my opinion anyway.

DH and I have had our downs along with the ups, but the ups are so much better for them now - we know we can overcome anything, and love each other enough to do so. That's just my take on things anyway

 

[oxSarahxo]

Not a teen anymore, 20now so just out.

I am NOT with the baby's biological father... He left me after she died... But don't take us as an example as our circumstances are obviously different.

We should have broke up sooner as he said he didn't love me and just felt trapped by the pregnancy and it's because I was pregnant that he didn't leave cuz he didn't wanna get "shit" from anyone.


Ignore peoples negativity, no one knows what will happen today, tomorrow or the next day... The people that are telling you this stuff, just ignore em.

Good luck with your relationship.

 

[TashaAndBump]

So sorry you and your OH broke up Sarah.

I thought you were going to try for another baby in April?? Sorry to hear it sounds like he is being a bit of a dick about it all - when he should have been at his most supportive as well

Big Hope things look up for you soon xx

 

[oxSarahxo]

So sorry you and your OH broke up Sarah.

I thought you were going to try for another baby in April?? Sorry to hear it sounds like he is being a bit of a dick about it all - when he should have been at his most supportive as well

Big Hope things look up for you soon xx

Oh its a long story, matt left ages ago... pretty much straight away, cleared the flat out of everything.

I am trying for another in April yes, its like I say, very long story, but with a bloke called Alan now, very very good friend of mine... The one that kindly dismantled jessicas cot and packed away her clothes and toys etc with me when matt wouldnt.

Strange really that Alan's the one that was always there, even through the pregnancy and as soon as matt left he came straight here... He was more matts friend than mine but hes totally written matt off after the things hes done (prior to us - me n alan - getting together).

Part of me had known for long enough that matt was a shit house, i just didnt wanna see it... He never bought jessica a single thing during the pregnancy, not even a bottle or a dummy, i sold everything i had to buy her everything she has/had, cot, pram the lot... he LOANED me the money for her pram and i had to pay him it back. thats how bad it was. I would ask him to buy her a teddy, thats all, he kept sayin he would and never did. I'd be here forever trying to explain just how bad it really was, but u never wanna tell ppl 'hey im pregnant, look what a shit house im with, he does nowt for me or the baby' u know?

He said over her grave the other week the reason itd never work between us is I wanted jessica and he didnt. I knew it in my heart long before he told me.


never mind

 

[TashaAndBump]

Sorry hun, he sounds like a wanker...

Best of luck in your future with Alan. I'm sorry if you were offended by me asking - you could have told me to piss off I'm glad you are with somone decent now - you deserve it

 

[xXDonnaXx]

I'm not a teen, i'm 20 but I'm not with my baby's dad. He hasn't helped with anything. So I am alot better off without him.

 

[mz_jackie86]

im gatecrashin on u teens lol im 22 and not with him, he picks and choses when he wants to be apart of it so i told him to jog on! X

 

[oox_tasha_xoo]

Im still with the daddy-2-be after nearly 3 years god knows how he puts up with my emotions at the moment lol! x

 

[tone]

My OH actually proposed to me yesterday!!!
About 3 1/2 years now!! Eeek! xx

 

[Luhweez]

My OH actually proposed to me yesterday!!!
About 3 1/2 years now!! Eeek! xx

eeee congratulations!!!!

 

[FallenAngel]

Me and my son's father are still together. We have been together for Ohhhh....3 year now? I think it's something like that anyways. LoL. If it makes you feel any better, one of my best friends, her mom is a teen mommy and her and her husband have been together for like 30 years now (or close to it). And he is the father of all 5 of her kids.

 

[FallenAngel]

My OH actually proposed to me yesterday!!!
About 3 1/2 years now!! Eeek! xx

Congrats!!! That's so exciting!!!