teen scared need help

[fairy1312]

HELP i am 16,
i need somones help to possibly tell me if im pregnant im to scared to take a test
my mom flipped out last time i did and told me that she will make me get rid of my baby if i ever became pregnant is that possible??? i havnt been feeling good for i think 2 months im constantly tired my lower stomach is getting hard and im not forsure if that is even a sign my breasts are tender i havnt been feelings well like im nausea and i keep getting headaches i have really bad mood problems i cry for no reason i even cried because we didnt have pizza rolls i dont know what to think and im scared to death i know me and my boyfriend can take care of it but i dont want my mother to get rid of my child i have had my period but the last 2 havnt been normal they have been lighter and shorter then normal i dont know what to think can someone please tell me what they think PLEASE

 

[Preggies]

Your mom legally cannot make you do this. She can bring you to the clinic and all that stuff, but if you tell everyone there that you refuse, they legally cannot abort your baby. You can get a one dollar pregnancy test from the 99 cent stores if you have any near you. You will just have to find a way to take this test in secret. Maybe in the bathroom at the store. If you are pregnant you can tell your mother that legally she can't do anything about it. She can't even force you to put it up for adoption!!! It is YOUR baby. Hope this helps.

 

[try4girl2]

You might want to post this in the Teen section and the first trimester section that way you will get some more replies

The first thing you need to do is find out if you are. Not sure where you live but if it is the US you can try plan parenthood or a crisis pregnant center. They will have someone to talk to if you want. Then after that you need to have a plan and tell your mom. It is hard I was a pregnant teen I was 17 with my first. Just remember that everything will be ok just take it day by day

 

[fairy1312]

thank u but cant they call my mom and tell her i dont want her finding out that way but im scared to find out my stomach just keeps getten harder nd im not forsure if thats wat it is idk if they problems im having are even symptoms thank u for ur help

 

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