Temps at highest ever, 13dpo...still bfn?

[Ladybird28]

I'm 13 dpo today, have sore bbs, temps now at highest they've been,been more emotional in last day or so yet I've tested for last few days and all bfn. Bfn this morning too and not even a whiff of a faint line or anything. Just so frustrated, if witch is gonna show just wanna know, being in limbo is doing my head in!! X

 

[katzone]

Aww I am the same, 13DPO temp still high (not the highest) but BFN!! I was due AF today and normally spot the day before but not had anything. I want that or AF to just show up!!

 

[carmyz]

hope u get ur bfps soon xx

 

[Ladybird28]

Isn't it infuriating!! And it's so difficult to try and put it out of your mind. I just want my bfp or to get on with the next cycle. Hope we both get our answers asap! X

 

[crossroads]

I know exactily how you feel. Do you have any AF cramps? x

 

[crossroads]

Isn't it infuriating!! And it's so difficult to try and put it out of your mind. I just want my bfp or to get on with the next cycle.

Exactily. TTC is the centre of my life. Nothing else matters. The waiting is unbearable.

I'm almost certainly out this month. Falling temps, don't feel pregnant in the slightest, BFN on Friday, and AF cramps Don't feel as though I have any support.

 

[Ladybird28]

Isn't it infuriating!! And it's so difficult to try and put it out of your mind. I just want my bfp or to get on with the next cycle.

Exactily. TTC is the centre of my life. Nothing else matters. The waiting is unbearable.

I'm almost certainly out this month. Falling temps, don't feel pregnant in the slightest, BFN on Friday, and AF cramps Don't feel as though I have any support.

aww hun, you know we are all here for you. I can't think bout anything else myself at the mo, it makes me wonder if we aren't stressing ourselves out and making the witch stay away

 

[crossroads]

Isn't it infuriating!! And it's so difficult to try and put it out of your mind. I just want my bfp or to get on with the next cycle.

Exactily. TTC is the centre of my life. Nothing else matters. The waiting is unbearable.

I'm almost certainly out this month. Falling temps, don't feel pregnant in the slightest, BFN on Friday, and AF cramps Don't feel as though I have any support.

aww hun, you know we are all here for you. I can't think bout anything else myself at the mo, it makes me wonder if we aren't stressing ourselves out and making the witch stay away

I don't buy into all this 'stress' lark. Physical abuse (bad diet, drinking, smoking) is way more influential when ttc. When I was at the most stressed of my life (law exams on a 100% exam degree) I still had regular periods. I'm not as stressed as I was back then, so while stress may be a minor factor, it's certainly not a major one.

When's your AF due? x

 

[Ladybird28]

I had a job interview last month and had to do a lot of studying for it and managed to turn myself into a nervous wreck. Lo and behold af was 6 days late which was out of the ordinary for me as I always have a cycle of between 28-30 days, so I think stress must affect all of us in different ways.
I've taken that af should have been due on 31st but bit confused due to last month x

 

[crossroads]

I had a job interview last month and had to do a lot of studying for it and managed to turn myself into a nervous wreck. Lo and behold af was 6 days late which was out of the ordinary for me as I always have a cycle of between 28-30 days, so I think stress must affect all of us in different ways.
I've taken that af should have been due on 31st but bit confused due to last month x

So I'm assuming you O'd late last month? Did you chart?

 

[Mrs LP]

Isn't it infuriating!! And it's so difficult to try and put it out of your mind. I just want my bfp or to get on with the next cycle.

Exactily. TTC is the centre of my life. Nothing else matters. The waiting is unbearable.

I'm almost certainly out this month. Falling temps, don't feel pregnant in the slightest, BFN on Friday, and AF cramps Don't feel as though I have any support.

I'm new to this site but at 5 months tryin I'm starting to get a bit down about it all. I feel like I should be doing more. Everyone is talking about temps and charting and I'm clueless! I'm not doing anything except letting nature take its course! x

 

[Ladybird28]

No this is my first month of charting so only got the average cycle length to go on at the moment x

 

[Mrs LP]

No this is my first month of charting so only got the average cycle length to go on at the moment x

I feel like I should be doin sooooo much more, as if I'm being lazy about it! I just don't even know where to begin?! Good Luck to you x

 

[Ladybird28]

Course your not bein lazy, I only started charting cause after trying to let nature do it's thing for a couple of months I reckoned I'd nothing to lose by starting to chart, plus il be 37 next month so seeing I'm knocking on a bit thought I might as well try everything possible to help. If you want to start charting have a look at fertilityfriend.com as it explains everything u need to do. Best of luck!! X

 

[crossroads]

Isn't it infuriating!! And it's so difficult to try and put it out of your mind. I just want my bfp or to get on with the next cycle.

Exactily. TTC is the centre of my life. Nothing else matters. The waiting is unbearable.

I'm almost certainly out this month. Falling temps, don't feel pregnant in the slightest, BFN on Friday, and AF cramps Don't feel as though I have any support.

I'm new to this site but at 5 months tryin I'm starting to get a bit down about it all. I feel like I should be doing more. Everyone is talking about temps and charting and I'm clueless! I'm not doing anything except letting nature take its course! x

I think you should deffo start charting and tracking cm. It can increase your chances dramatically x

 

[crossroads]

I'm 13 dpo today, have sore bbs, temps now at highest they've been,been more emotional in last day or so yet I've tested for last few days and all bfn. Bfn this morning too and not even a whiff of a faint line or anything. Just so frustrated, if witch is gonna show just wanna know, being in limbo is doing my head in!! X

13DPO is still rather early.

If your temps stay up till 18DPO then you are almost certainly pregnant

5 days to go! x

 

[Ladybird28]

thanks hun, I'll be counting every day!! Fx'd for you too, let me know if you get some good news! X

 

[HollySSmith]

Same here. No real symptoms and I'm 12DPO. My temps today are the highest they have ever been but tested this morning and got a . Its so depressing. I'm almost tempted to start using opk's. The is due tomorrow so we'll see what happens. This sucks.

 

[crossroads]

Same here. No real symptoms and I'm 12DPO. My temps today are the highest they have ever been but tested this morning and got a . Its so depressing. I'm almost tempted to start using opk's. The is due tomorrow so we'll see what happens. This sucks.

Any AF cramps?

Your chart looks really cool x

 

[HollySSmith]

no cramps. Though I am one of those fortunate individuals that don't really get any PMS. No irratability, cramps etc. I'm not bloated any more than usual. But it was the same last month and then out of the blue the showed. When are you due?