Terrible day in TTC journey...

[Snowglobe21]

Today was a horrible day for my fiancee and I as our friend that got his girlfriend of 4 months pregnant posted he was going to be a dad on facebook. To make it worse, this other guy posted how he had a daughter too that no one knew about because she lived with the mom. Why do these losers procreate so easily? I then creeped the guys page since I went to high school with him and there is no mention of the child or any photos of her and he was dating another girl throughout the pregnancy. WTF.

And then we added temp info to my fertilityfriend chart and it says no ovulation detected for this month. We were hopeful since my last period was my first in 4 months since the miscarriage. UGHHH between me having 2 ovulations a year and my hubbies 4% morph, its a miracle we got pregnant once. Let alone trying all over again.

Also, my last doctors appointment a few days ago showed cysts again and she still won't prescribe me metformin or clomid saying that only the fertility clinic can do that and she will help us after "were married". I'm sorry, but there better not be morals going into that decision to only help us after were married. That is not her place in the slightest. Also, how she manages to keep saying I probably don't have PCOS because one of my many ultrasounds didn't show cysts is beyond me.

 

[mjemma]

Sorry to hear you are having a bad day. Sometimes it just all seems to hit at once doesn't it and it's impossible to make sense of why some people are blessed with kids and we have to struggle through.

I would try and see a different doctor and get a second opinion. I've done this as I was sure I had PCOS and was being fobbed off. When I finally saw a good doctor he said I was right and was very apologetic so good luck x