Thumbelina 3
1 child of 2 years 9month
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i had my daughter just over 3 years ago. I hated every second of labour and really panicked which I think made it worse. It wasn't the most awful labour but wasn't the best either and lasted for 4 days!they had to do a sweep, then induce, drip etc because I wasn't progressing very quickly, ended up with epidural and a lovely baby day 4 but had to stay in due to high temperature, very low iron but it wasn't that awful really. I just could not handle the pain of labour even at 1cm!!i know they say you forget labour once you have baby in your arms but I really haven't!it took me 2.5 years to pluck up the courage to do it again after saying I didn't want another one (sickness all the way through, same this time) but finally took the plunge. So here we are im just over 36 weeks and getting more and more stressed about the upcoming labour!i had a urine infection at 33 weeks and had awful pain ended up going to hospital as we thought was labour but it wasn't!and that felt bad enough and I freaked out!im not normally a whimp about things so don't know why I panic so much!anyone else the same?or any suggestions for keeping calm?