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[onefineday]

hi
ladys
i had my 9 week scan last wednesday and there was no heartbeat, i have chose to let nature take its course,
so i was hoping if anyone could tell me what to expect, i havent started bleeding yet
does it last long
does it hurt
im terrified
lol
donna

 

[tinkerbell123]

Oh sweetheart im sooo sorry i mc last month i was only 6.5 weeks. Every one is different but with me i was a little worse pain than period and i had one very heavy bleed. You might need a DC if your body doesnt reject the bean ( i was lucky mine was a complete mc so needed no intervention) It lasted around about the same time a af but my next cycle was around6 weeks later
Just wanted to say keep your chin up and take care

 

[Serene123]

No advice, just wanted to say I'm really sorry for your loss!

 

[onefineday]

no matter were you go on this site everyone is so wonderfull
thankyou
lol
donna

 

[porkpie1981]

sorry about ur loss. I had a blighted ovum . Found out at 10 wks and then had a d & C at nearly 13. Im still bleeding so may need another one. I waited to go natural and to be honsest just needed a while to see if a miracle happened(which it didnt). U are soooo brave(more than me) to wait it out and im not surprised that u are scared. I wish i could advise you more on natural miscarriaging but i cant! Mek sure u go to the hospital if u feel the need to

P.S u mite be making the rite choice as i have to go tomorrow to see if i need another d & C as im still bleeding

 

[NeyNey]

I'm sorry for your loss

 

[onefineday]

sorry about ur loss. I had a blighted ovum . Found out at 10 wks and then had a d & C at nearly 13. Im still bleeding so may need another one. I waited to go natural and to be honsest just needed a while to see if a miracle happened(which it didnt). U are soooo brave(more than me) to wait it out and im not surprised that u are scared. I wish i could advise you more on natural miscarriaging but i cant! Mek sure u go to the hospital if u feel the need to

P.S u mite be making the rite choice as i have to go tomorrow to see if i need another d & C as im still bleeding

hi hun
thankyou
i dont think im braver than you, any woman who goes through what were going through is very brave
lol
donna
wishing you the best for tommorow

 

[bellazucca]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I send you big hugs.

 

[sarah_george]

Hi Donna soo sorry for your your loss I had a natural MC at 6 weeks and 2 days mine started with pink on the tissue paper when i wiped then bleeding only when i wiped that went on for 24 hours and then it got heavier, I then got bad period pains like mild labour pains the morning I lost my pregnancy, it was painful but manageable with paracetamol and the bleeding was really heavy for 2 maybe 3 days then went like a normal period for a few days, had bleeding for a week in all, I was grateful I didnt need a D and C that all happened a week and a half ago and i'm feeling like my old again self now and looking forward to ttc again, cant believe I am saying that after the state I was in this time last week! its a terrrible thing to happen am soo sorry you have also experienced this xxx

 

[bethyb]

hey hun,
im really sorry your going through this...
I miscarried on the 5 th of april although had a scan on the third that confirmed my baby had no heartbeat. I was going to have the tablet to help things along but miscarried naturally at home.
I began to spot first - thats why i had the scan and then i started to bleed lightly. Anyway i then began to get period pains that were quite sharp and then started to bleed quite heavily.. I had a inital heavy bleed where i passed my baby, i didnt see baby but the sac was clearly visable as i couldnt bare to let it happen on the loo - everyone deals with miscarriage differently and having had a erpc in nov i found this time very emotionaly draining.
The bleeding calmed after about half hour and then i had a heavy period which finally finished two weeks later - a scan confirmed i had a incomplete miscarriage and thats why i bled for slightly longer than some of the other ladies.
I have buried my baby in a really special spot and feel some closure by doing that although i realise this is really personal and just what I needed to do..
I was very scared when i started to bleed and got quite upset but my partner was wonderful and helped to clean me up and get me to bed with a hottie. he then feed me lots of choclate and gave me lots of cuddles!
I think you will need ur loved ones round you and then let nature decide the rest. it is scary and it is upsetting but its all part of letting go..
you will feel stronger, its only been a matter of weeks for me and although im still grieving my loss, i feel much stronger and phyically i think im ok. be strong babe you will be ok too.
im so sorry hunny, I hope my openness has helped xx

 

[onefineday]

thankyou all so much
your a very special group of ladys,
i am so sorry for your losses, sending you big

you can never have to many

 

[mrscookie]

sorry for your loss honey Good luck and baby dust for the coming month! xxx

 

[maccy]

I'm so sorry hun, I'm scared too so can't offer much advice, been bleeding a week but very mild and I'm going back Fri to check if there is baby or not. You take care and if you feel it's not manageable take yourself off to the Dr. x

 

[dizzynic]

Hi so sorry to hear what you are going through i miscarried at 7 weeks on 11th april it started off with very light bleeding and continued like that all weekend stopping and starting then on monday 14th april i had a scan at epac where they told me there was nothing there and my baby had most likely died at 5 weeks and come away with the light bleed my bleeding got much heavier and clotty on that night and continued heavy for two days i didnt really get any pain while bleeding the only pain i did get was on 19th of april and that was after my bleeding had almost stopped and i was only spotting this pain i would liken to after labour pains quite sharp and took my breath away
Nichol

 

[MrsF]

Heya hun, how are you today? So sorry for what's happening to you. My story is very similar to the others, more painful than AF, very light spotting, then a heavy bleed which tapered off. I'm sending you lots of hugs and stuff, and thinking of yuo throughout this sad time x x x x

 

[Newt]

I'm so very sorry

 

[xxxjacxxx]

Hun Im sending you lots of as I know exactly what you are going to go through as I am going through it right now.
I found out I was pregnant last wednesday (4 weeks) I then found out I was going to m/c after bloods at the hospital on the weekend. I started to spot pink blood on saturday night which turned to light brown spotting when I wiped on sunday and monday. Tuesday was red watery blood and today I think Im heading for the worst part. It feels much like a period at the moment, slight twinges and back ache. I was only 4 weeks and 3 days when I started so Im hoping its not going to be too painful.
Its absolutely gutting, especially when I look back on my BFP post I did only last week..its heartbreaking to read now
Keep strong and dont be afraid to cry if you want to...I tried to keep it in but I felt better after it was all out.
Sending you loads of
Jacqui xxx

 

[bethyb]

I think the worse bit is coming to terms with the fact that your baby has died, your body does what it has to but its ur mind that takes ther real battering.
good luck you all and stay strong xx