Doodar, you did everything that you could do given the situation. So glad that "girl" has a mature adult around to let her know how wonderful that baby is! I think i am more upset that "girl" is trying to use substance abuse as a means to rid her sweet baby! I am appaled... bc chances are that wont terminate the pregnancy and then she will end up with a baby that has tons of problems....God, what has this world come to??
Anyways, I am done. Hope your tears have dried doll.