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[crystal443]

Hi Ladies...Just one more question I just wanted to find out which day would be a reasonable day to test? I don't want to test to early and be disapointed so how many DPO is a good time? Thanks so much for all your help!!

 

[2016]

crystal....I wouldn't test before 10dpo at the absolute earliest and that has to be with an FRER or something equally sensitive. Even better to wait for the day is due like 14dpo and get a lovely DARK
Good luck!

billy....glad your bloods are progressing well. Your doc sounds like a keeper - can I have him?

 

[ablacketer]

we had a temp spike today cd 14 after MC. what do you ladies think? could be ov? its the highest temp Ive had since the first days of the MC

 

[2016]

Angel...sorry again about your loss hun
It looks like it could be ov although I know mc can delay normal ov by a few days usually. Think it also depends when your temps went neg. Did you keep testing? Sorry if it's a sensitive subject.
I keep being told ladies are more fertile after a loss...

 

[Titi]

Ablacketer-I'm sorry to hear of your angel bean. : (

 

[billylid]

I'm really sorry about your angel as well Ablacketer

 

[ablacketer]

thanks girls. I didnt continue temping after the positive ptest. I should have but I guess I felt like it would jinx me.

It was weierd, we got BFP sunday, monday the POAS was neg in the afternoon but the bloods were positive. then friday another BFN in the afternoon with a hcg level of 12. Im guessing it implanted then immediately rejected.

we got another high temp this morning so Im going with Ov date of cd13. yay! now lets see if I get a 2ww or a 4ww lol

 

[Titi]

and......I'm out.

 

[billylid]

Bummer Titi

 

[ablacketer]

hugs titi

 

[kstancook]

Titi

 

[2016]

and......I'm out.

sorry Titi hun.

~~*~~

I am technically out before I get started for this cycle and perhaps the next 3+ cycles if I wait for the government healthcare system to get its act together and dye test my tubes!

Question is do I wait what could be up to 6 months or risk the high probability of the physical and emotional pain of another ectopic?

I am currently leaning towards just going for it - I normally live by the motto rather regret what you have done than what you haven't.....what do you girls think?

 

[Titi]

2016-Having never had or lost a pregnancy I am really not sure what to tell you hun- but I guess go with your heart!

 

[2016]

2016-Having never had or lost a pregnancy I am really not sure what to tell you hun- but I guess go with your heart!

Thanks Titi...my heart says to keep trying but it also says I probably won't fally pregnant it is just more to make me *feel* like I am doing something other than sitting around IYKWIM.

 

[billylid]

I have to admit I am the same as Titi, this is my first pregnancy so I'm not entirely sure on what is going on in your mind. I totally agree though, you should do what you and your partner feel is best for you both.

 

[Titi]

2016-I think that sounds right.....I can't imagine how you must feel. I think its so hopeful though you know you CAN get pregnant!!!!! Maybe that is a stupid thing to tell someone........if so I'm sorry-but it seems promising.

 

[ablacketer]

had a super dark OPK this morning and my temps have me at 9 dpo.... got bfn this morning too. fingers crossed!

 

[billylid]

as instructed, fingers are crossed ablacketer. lots of positive thoughts for you

 

[ablacketer]

whoo hoo!

 

[2016]

All the best angel
I am have little idea where I am in my cycle....I know I am pre ov but not sure how far away because we have decided to NTNP this cycle.
Haven't had any ov pains so I think my ovaries have just gone to sleep and ov is miles away! I bet I will be surprise when my temp eventually shifts
I kinda want this cycle to end so I can get my dye test done at the start of next FS appt (so I can be referred for the dye) is now next Thursday 15th.