The bargaining thread

[Sbee]

Hi all, Anyone else fallen into the 'bargaining' or 'reason' lines?

"If I do this or don't do that then it will happen to me this month" or "it all happens for a reason" (although typically that reason hasn't revealed itself to me just yet .....) sigh.

 

[keyahopes]

I used to do it early on. Like "maybe i didn't fall preg last month because if i do this month, then baby will be due on my hubby's b'day etc".
Now that I am onto my second year, I vaguely remember these dates and times last year when I was so hopeful and thought this month would be my month.
Now I go around so sure that no month is my month
Sorry its just that time of the tww when i feel no different from all the other months.

 

[Sbee]

It's so hard to be positive after a while isn't it. Sending much baby dust your way x

 

[sparkle83]

Oh yes.

often play this game called 'if I see xxxxx within xxx time, I'll get pg this month', usually the pram like we have, a car with a car seat in it, or a particular colour/breed of animal. But more seriously, I have an issue at work, and part of me wants to drop the person who is making my life hell in it by anonymously reporting to head office that she uses the F word when the shop is open loud enough for customers to hear. I know she may well get demoted or even sacked if I do. So I make the bargain with myself that by not doing it vindictively, I protect my karma, and have a better chance of having a baby.

 

[anytimenow]

I definitely have done this many of times. Go out of my way to do something nice thinking Karma will work its magic. Every month dream about the day I will be able to test and maybe get that BFP, and what my due date would be -yes I look that up everytime! Crazy I know..