the dads done a runner

[youngmummy2b]

hey all jus needed 2 rant i'm 15 yrs old and 9wks and 4dys pregnant the baby wasn't planned but is very much wanted by me at least as soon as the dad found out he did a runner and says he wants nothin 2 do with me or "it" as he calls him/her i just feel really daunted at the fact i am facing this alone i feel quite afraid at the moment. i do have the support of a great family but i reali don't wish it up on my son/daughter to grow up without a dad like i did and i'm really annoyed at the fact he's done a runner i wish he'd face up 2 his responsabilities p.s sorry 4 the rant

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[leeanne]

I am sorry to hear that your boyfriend has gone the other way. To be fair, he's pretty young and it must be tough for him to take.

At the same time, it's the woman who carries the child and is left to bring up the child.

Hardly seems fair.

Perhaps in time he will come around and I hope he sincerely does.

Happy to hear that you have a supportive family!

 

[youngmummy2b]

i honestly wouldn't mind if that was the case but he's got a 2 month old baby girl with his ex and he went to every m/w appointment and scan and was even there 4 the birth but with this child he don't want nothin to do with him/her which hardly seems fair xxxx

 

[Irishmum]

Ah hun I don't know what to tell ya! Hopefully I don't come off sounding judgy but you'd think the fact he has found himself in this position once before he would be a bit more careful.

The truth is luv it takes 2 people to make a baby, but a baby can have a very happy normal childhood with only one parent. I can see why you might feel stressed especially having experienced a single parent family yourself, but as you said your family are very supportive. Im a lil older than you (20) and Im due in 4 weeks I also have a very supportive family (and a far from supportive sperm doner) and one thing I have realised is that as long as the baby is loved it doesnt matter where the love comes from. I know it's a small comfort atm, but rest assured you are far from alone.

x

 

[youngmummy2b]

ahh thanks alot hun that means alot its ust really upset me that he's having something to do with his daughter but not his other child it really has wound me up but i'm a strong gal i can handle being a single parent xxx

 

[bumpsx4]

good luck im sure you will be fine

 

[youngmummy2b]

thanks a lot hun that reali does mean a lot xx

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[Foxxy]

I can understand ur feelings about why who could do something for his daughter and why he couldn't this for other baby too...no one can answer this question...probably just him...
But don't worry - u'll be fine!
First i also thought that it's terrible when baby has only one parent in his/her life, but now i'm compeletly agree with Irishmum that "as long as the baby is loved it doesnt matter where the love comes from'. So try to enjoy ur pregnancy and u'll be fine! Although it could take some time to understand it!

 

[wantababybump]

Sorry you have to go through this hun

 

[sweetsammi]

Firstly i want to say how maturly you are handling your situation. You sound very level and very tough and I don't doubt you wont do a brilliant job. I don't really understand why he has done this, it just proves who's the better person though. I can understand you must be feeling angry, confused and hurt, but like you say, u are strong and you have family support. It isnt ideal perhaps but your baby will be happy-with or without his/her father present. Good luck sweetie. xx

 

[Blob]

Hey Good Luck with your pregnancy, maybe he just needs a bit of time to get his head round it... again. He was naive last time and now knows what it takes so maybe its spooked him even more