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Yessssss I killed the spider. Yay for merry hill!!!and that chance that I may 'bump in to' mush lol
 
Lol you'll have to arrange it on the sly, like say that at a certain time you need to go to X shop, and leave the misters behind hehe while you sneak off for a frappe!!
 
Hahah well done Lh!

Kam jus said "come let's go"

I've said "can't we go later... Like set off at 3 or 4" hehe
 
Hey girls still no AF!!

Check out my journal for some house pictures!!

xxx
 
I don't no if were going at all now :( his grandmas not cumin till half 3!!!depends how long she stops,sorry mush,was excited as well :(

Oohhhh mag will u test in the morning???
 
Lolol don't worry hon, another time!

Oooh of to check on mags!
 
Defo another time :) was just about 2 txt u incase u wernt on here lol.

Mags it looks amazing :) I love new builds.
 
Hahah ah well, I'm on n off most the time!

Right better get dressed and head out!

Have a good day gorgeous girls! Xx
 
hi everyone. just been shopping for food this morning and now at parents.
Will go and check your jornal becca x
Hope evryones ok x
 
So, going to have a little rant here about the latest developments with my brother (the one that Nan kicked out for calling her the C word, if you remember me moaning about that?)

Well, he has moved in with his 16 year old girlfriend. He's 20 in December, but quite immature, so she is probably about right for him. She was at college, but recently dropped out to spend more time with him. He doesn't work. He left his last job by choice, and has been asked to go back several times, but has refused. So he is not out of work because of the state of the job market, or the state of Thetford in general, but because he cannot be arsed, and does not like being told what to do... well I'm sorry, but if you are a 19 year old with no qualifications I think you can be expected to be told what to do in work! His girlfriend,is also very lazy, stays at home all day with him and neither of them lift a finger to help out her parents, who put a roof over their head and food in their bellies, and don't expect any rent from the. She is a spoiled little madam. Well, not happy with the free roof they already have, they want to get a council house! IMO, and knowing Thetford, there are many, many people in that town who are more deserving than they are. But we all know the theoretical fastest way to get a council house anywhere in the UK don't we?? A combination of being up the duff and homeless should do it. It hasn't happened YET, but I have a sneaking suspicion that the next I hear from my brother, he will have a pregnant and barely legal girlfriend. It makes me soooo angry! Partly for selfish reasons, ie I want to have children before him because I am older, and have worked much harder to grow a stable environment for my children. But also because I know he would be a rubbish, angry, nasty parent, and on top of that, he is irresponsible and lazy! If he were to have children now, they would just turn out to be exactly like him. I'm not being completely selfish, this is not just about fear of him stealing my limelight, it's about the mess that a baby would be born into should he go ahead with it. :cry: I tend to always think the worst of him, which I know it not nice, but I've known him for ALL his life, and I'm normally right... I just hope that this time I am wrong, because I can see everything spiralling from this point on for him, and I want him to make the right decisions for him. This I think would be the wrong one because of the motives behind it.

I knight all of you that bothered to read that all, and crown any that make sense of it! I'm very angry, so it is probably slightly incoherent. But blah, thanks for trying lol x x x
 
Reading that back, I think I should just clarify quickly that I don't think it is wrong to bring a child up in a council house/flat, I think it is wrong to have a child merely as a means to an end - the end being the council house/flat x x x
 
I knew what you meant hun. That would wind me up too, I don't really know what to suggest...
At least you know that your baby will be well brought up and you will give it the best life possible. You should be proud that you got settled and stable first.
 
Princess_LV said:
So, going to have a little rant here about the latest developments with my brother (the one that Nan kicked out for calling her the C word, if you remember me moaning about that?)

Well, he has moved in with his 16 year old girlfriend. He's 20 in December, but quite immature, so she is probably about right for him. She was at college, but recently dropped out to spend more time with him. He doesn't work. He left his last job by choice, and has been asked to go back several times, but has refused. So he is not out of work because of the state of the job market, or the state of Thetford in general, but because he cannot be arsed, and does not like being told what to do... well I'm sorry, but if you are a 19 year old with no qualifications I think you can be expected to be told what to do in work! His girlfriend,is also very lazy, stays at home all day with him and neither of them lift a finger to help out her parents, who put a roof over their head and food in their bellies, and don't expect any rent from the. She is a spoiled little madam. Well, not happy with the free roof they already have, they want to get a council house! IMO, and knowing Thetford, there are many, many people in that town who are more deserving than they are. But we all know the theoretical fastest way to get a council house anywhere in the UK don't we?? A combination of being up the duff and homeless should do it. It hasn't happened YET, but I have a sneaking suspicion that the next I hear from my brother, he will have a pregnant and barely legal girlfriend. It makes me soooo angry! Partly for selfish reasons, ie I want to have children before him because I am older, and have worked much harder to grow a stable environment for my children. But also because I know he would be a rubbish, angry, nasty parent, and on top of that, he is irresponsible and lazy! If he were to have children now, they would just turn out to be exactly like him. I'm not being completely selfish, this is not just about fear of him stealing my limelight, it's about the mess that a baby would be born into should he go ahead with it. :cry: I tend to always think the worst of him, which I know it not nice, but I've known him for ALL his life, and I'm normally right... I just hope that this time I am wrong, because I can see everything spiralling from this point on for him, and I want him to make the right decisions for him. This I think would be the wrong one because of the motives behind it.

I knight all of you that bothered to read that all, and crown any that make sense of it! I'm very angry, so it is probably slightly incoherent. But blah, thanks for trying lol x x x
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Sounds exactly like my SIL & her OH so I know exactly where you are coming from honey.

I should of had the 1st grandchild but they had to go and ruin it.

I know how angry you feel its awful but you cant help it.

xxxx

P.S I might test tomorrow see how I feel in the morning.
 
So I just got my Jenny Readin and I'm not impressed.
I told her that conception didn't happen until May and I wasn't due until Feb and this is what I have got


Your reading reveals that your current pregnancy is with a baby boy. His EDD is referenced the 1st of January 2011 (that's based on a March 20th 2010 date that you stated your last cycle began). The first card off the deck was a indicator of a baby boy which validates a current pregnancy to me and the gender and then from the cycle date you give me I look forward in the reading for a due based on that. A birth is shown earlier - the 18th of December 2010 is shown and he is born in the afternoon around 5pm following a natural labour and delivery that lasts about 8-9 hours from first contraction to delivery. I get the feeling that a home birth may be looked at for this baby but a hospital one is shown to me. Though there are no complications to his birth there may be reasons during pregnancy that it is decided to err of the side of caution and have a midwife present in a hospital setting but that much of the labouring is done at home. His birth weight is shown at 7lbs 5ozs.
 
Blooming heck ley! Did you mention home births to her??? And the date us just based on your date so I'd not bother with that but I betcha it's a boy!
 
I know a lot of it would be jealously, because I am the oldest and should be making a baby first. I just hope if it does happen, it makes him grow up a bit, and that he proves me wrong and makes a good daddy. He hates being compared to his own father (who was awful. A real nasty c*nt) so maybe he will prove me wrong. Either way, as much as I would dislike the situation, I know I would always still try and be there for him, as much as he would allow me to.

As for you reading Ley, maybe she is right? Her dates don't match yours, that much is obvious lol, but perhaps he will be an early baby, as that would be complication enough to prevent a homebirth. Would you consider a homebirth at all though? I think I have said before, but I am very all for it! I just love the idea of having a natural birth in the place where baby was made :cloud9: and more than that, being able to sleep in my own bed afterwards! x x x
 
we have said we would like to have a homebirth this time Leah and the complication could be because I have heart problems which mean I will need consultant led care.

I didn't mention anything about it to her though. I really hope he isn't born on December 18th as that would be about 32 weeks.

I do hope she is right about it being a boy though.
 
I just think bubs will be a couple weeks early maybe! I think she's onto something yanno....
 
well they have been getting earlier. Abigail was born at 39 weeks and Sophie at 38 so it's possible this could be an early baby too.

the birth weight is about right too, Abi was 7lbs 11.5ozs and Sophie was 7lbs 3ozs
 
I just read your journal entry about homebirth - a little slow on the uptake!:dohh: I don't know if you have already checked it out, but there is a group on here called "Homebirthers and Hopefuls" and the ladies there know ALL about how to get your homebirth, as a lot of midwives and consultants can get funny about it. When you bring it up with mw/consultant, just remember that they cannot tell you "no" they can only ever advise on what they think is the best option. And sometimes their "advice" is not particularly well researched, take it with a pinch of salt, do your own research, and make a balanced decision based on that :thumbup:

Sorry if I got a bit ahead of things for there, or if you already knew that lol, but this makes me very excited!! :happydance: I think homebirths are wonderful, although I am a naive never done it before type lol, and it would be amazing to know someone else planning one when I get to!! :hugs:x x x
 
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