Thanks for that Samie - I have heard about that book so I might invest. The naps are ok as I do manage to get him down with a bit of rocking it's just the night that is starting to be a problem. I might try that technique. I just hate to see him upset though - when I walk in the room he smiles and kicks his legs and then when I leave he puts his bottom lip out and looks so hurt. I am too soft! haha! xx