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Its odd same as most babies are off it around now and he is just starting :dohh:

Betty, I don't feel ready tbh but I know I have to. It may help a bit as I'm a bit down right now, he really has been horrible and he grabs, pulls and pinches a lot too. Feeling sorry for myself I think as I'm a Billy no mates, at least at work I have work "friends" to talk to...though they never even text me on mat leave!!

Hope sinn, diddums and Sara are feeling better. Hope Louja is over that bug.

Also hello to honey, Abbi, hay, k, mrs h and amaelia,pink and pinky......birth stories?! Lol.
 
Those pills haven't kicked in completely. Still being sick. But maybe not as much. Been off sick 2 days this week so really need to get my butt back to work tomorrow. Tone off for morning sickness is pathetic but I do feel awful x
 
Awww Sara that sounds awful! I threw up yesterday and felt rough all morning, but felt better today and hardly any nausea. Guess I might be one if the lucky ones who doesn't get much nausea? My friend didn't get any nausea throughout her two pregnancies!

Aww Anna, don't feel down. Have you text your work friends to organise an evening out or dinner? Make sure you talk to us if you keep feeling down, we're all here for a chat and virtual hugs xxxx

Sinn how you doing? Is it this weekend you have your second scan? How's the nausea? Xxx
 
Aww Anna, I know it's not exactly the same but I'm your friend and I second that if your feeling down you can vent here!!

You can always pm me here or on fb!

It's fab you and samie are so close to each other you should def arrange something!

Diddums I was quite nauseous but never actually sick, I wonder if it runs in families because I carried the same as mum and my sis....?

Sara hope your feeling well enough to work again soon, it's not lame constant sickness makes you feel yukky!

X x x
 
My sickness has increased! I'm off work at the moment (Easter hols) so that's good. I just spend my days lying about feeling sorry for myself!

Scan on Monday, fingers crossed!
 
Sinn thats great that youre so sick :haha::haha: great as in that it is a good symptom but obviously not good that it makes you feel pants!
 
:thumbup: good news sinn, fingers crossed for Monday x

Thanks to everyone for being kind, I dunno what has been up with me. I think I'm just finding him such hard work ATM. I. Sure when his teeth come through he will. Be happier.

Been sorting some of his backpack for nursery. I'm sad but I'm also excited for him? It looks a lot of fun there, just wish he could walk or crawl before going! Speaking of crawling...., he doesn't crawl or so I thought. He was I his cot yesterday I watched him effortlessly rollover get on all fours, rock then bunny hop crawl off. He makes no effort to do this any other time:shrug: I wondered if it is the wood floor but we have foam play mats and also carpet at mil and he doesn't ....weird! X
 
Today I have woken up like a now person. Feel really good. Smarten the tablets are working :)

Anna, I can appreciate how you feel. None of my friends have been supportive about me being pregnant. My best friend isn't talking to me because she feels I told elaborate lies. Whereas after my miscarriage I didn't want to talk about trying for a baby. But she wants nothing to do with me and none of the others have asked how I am or wanted to see me. Screw em. We need to out ourselves out there and make new
Friends. Xx
 
Oh Sara that's awful! Noone can know how you feel after a miscarriage. We all experience things differently. Up to know (fingers crossed) I haven't but when I thought I was, trying again was the last thing I wanted. My friend had 3 and all she wanted was those babies not new ones. Then things happen and we change our minds. It's just how things go.

I'm lucky in that my closest friends where I live now know and are great. My friends from where I am originally from don't know yet and I'm not in a rush to tell them until I know all is well. Also because there are a few friends that I no longer speak to that I don't want to know and I know that they will be told (you know how girls love a gossip no matter who it hurts!) sounds complicated and it was until I decided to walk away from it all and have a fresh start.

Keep smiling, you don't need people like that.
 
And thanks for the good wishes ladies, Monday can't come quick enough!
 
'Friends' are a funny thing, as most of you know my oh is away all week mon-fri and none of my friends bother to invite me to things because I'd be alone, if he is on hol they will invite us as a couple.... I tried for theongest time but realised I was the one making the first moves all the time.... So now I don't bother! Funny how silence from my end prompts the odd text here and there!

I am my own worst enemy because I'm too kind I let myself be taken for a ride all the time and very few ppl in my life reciprocate!

Sinn glad your so sick( not the actual sickness!) it's a fab sign bubs is well and truly comfy!

Sara does your friend think you lied about ttc after your mc? I find it odd she would be annoyed about that?

Anna Daisy would move when I wasn't looking for ages, I wondered how she was doing it ;)

Sounds like Marcus might start crawling very soon!

X x x
 
Betty. The texts I received were how I told elaborate lies that we're hurtful. And when asked if I would try for another baby I had said no and the following month I was pregnant and how she was worried about me. She wasn't that worried as I haven't seen her for 3 months, and she hasn't called or txt me. She never replies to me etc.
I am apparently the most evil person alive and it made me so sad I was a mess. Literally broke down. She told me she needs a month of space so she can have it. I need this time to look after myself and not cry everyday.
I too thought she would understand why I wouldn't tell everyone. Plus it's not anyone's business.
 
People are weird hey! I'm quite social but don't like mass drinking ( thanks mum and dad) so I didn't really fit in at uni and then moved here and find it hard to meet people.

We had a good morning and he even had beans on toast for lunch! Went for a walk and he fell asleep. I had to get him I. As cold and windy but he woke up and hasn't stopped screaming since. Btw that was 2.5 hrs ago. I feel so guilty as I get frustrated/annoyed. The women on baby club annoy me with their" I never get annoyed or frustrated or angry or anything ever!"

He has had food, milk, burping, bum change, hugs, toys, calpol....so I'm leaving him to it now- he won't let u comfort him! Oh he's now gone quiet and rolling around with a tambourine

Xxxx
 
Well then she should know better Sara. As long as you're happy then that's all that matters.

I'm not a big drinker either anna, the midwife didn't know how to take it when she asked me about my drinking habits. I said I was a rubbish drinker and she thought that meant I drank a lot! When I rarely drink I can cope with 2 or 3 before I'm asleep! I'm rubbish cos I just can't do it!
 
Hey all remember me? Sorry I've not been on for ages! I've just spent the last hour reading the last 100 pages that I missed lol.

Congrats on the BFPs woo hoo!!

Don't all faint but birth story is coming up, seeing as Joel is 5 months old today ;-)).
 
Birth story of Joel Edward Morris 5th November 2012.

On Thursday 1st November (8 days overdue) I had an appointment with my midwife and she did a sweep but said I was hardly dilated so I didn't hold out much hope of it working. I had a few pains that evening but they went away again. On Saturday 3rd November at 10am I went in for the scheduled monitoring that happens when you're 10 days overdue and went on the monitor for ages! Baby was fine. She scanned me and even though I was team yellow she still said at one point "I'm waiting for him to turn", so I was a bit peed off at that lol. She also did another sweep and said she thought I would go into labour before I was scheduled to be induced on the Monday (2 days later). Well she was right! That afternoon we went shopping as my OH needed a birthday present for his sister. I waddled around and kept getting pains. I went to loo at one point and there was definitely a show there! I also bumped into my ex husband which was amusing!
Anyway we got home, watched about of tv and went to bed. I woke up in the middle of the night with mild contractions. I was timing them with my app on my phone and they were every 10 minutes. They got worse as the night went on. In the morning I slept through them as much as I could and then they just stopped!! Pottered around the house most of the day and OH decided to get curry and chips from the chippy for us to see if the curry would get things going again! When I was eating it at about 5pm the pains started again! We were timing them and they were getting closer together. Around 9pm I was on the bed and could hardly speak so phoned the hospital to let them know it was likely I'd be in later. The pains were so strong they took my breath away and I couldn't speak! I also felt really really sick so I ran to the bathroom and vomited everywhere! Never been that sick in my life it was quite a shock! Had a bath and tried to stay at home as long as I could but by 2am I couldn't last so we went to hospital. That car journey was the most hideous one i have ever been on! But it was only 15 minutes so not too bad. When I got there I was 3cm dilated! They let me stay in the assessment room as I was still being very sick. Omg it was soooo cold in there! They gave me some paracetamol and checked me again at 4am and I was 5cm! I remember between contractions I actually danced around the room and did air punches as I was so happy that I was halfway there! They took me to delivery suite and I looked at the clock and thought my baby would hopefully be here by lunchtime! I had diamorphine and ate some toast and a few hours later they examined me I was still 5cm and then at 2pm they examined me and I was STILL 5cm! They said I'd need a drip to get things going so I had an epidural which was the best thing ever! They put me on the monitor and I was able to get a bit of sleep. My OH has got footage of me snoring lol. They examined me at 7pm and I was 9cm and then at 10pm I was fully dilated! As I'd had an epidural I couldn't feel when to push so had to rely on the midwives, but it was a student one with me and I don't thing she really knew when to tell me to push! It seemed like only 20 minutes later that the doctor then came and had a look and said I'd need forceps so would need to go to theatre. It felt like they'd hardy given me a chance to push but you just have to go with what they said. Also the pains were coming back big time! They made me sign a form, took me down, gave me a spinal and tried to use the forceps. The consultant then had a look and said the baby was too high so I'd need a casaerean! So they prepared to do that and at 11:34pm baby Joel finally came out! They whisked him straight away so I didn't see him straight away. We didn't hear him cry for ages but then we did! There was a midwife nearby and I asked her if it was a boy or a girl and she said she didn't know! Then they called my OH over so he went and it seemed like he was gone ages! When he came back he was crying with happiness and couldn't speak but he eventually got out that it was a boy! He weighed 8lb 8oz. They stitched me up and we went back to delivery suite!

I was a bit gutted to have gone through the whole labour and then end up with a emcs but he's worth it all. I'm still recovering from it really. If I do too much it aches lol.

But I'm loving being a mummy it's amazing!!
 
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