The official cerazette missing period support thread!! *NAME CHANGE*

[kix11]

Thanks everyone I'm thrilled to bits feeling very lucky!

Honey are you in Germany now?! Ahh do you think you will have any more?

Anna I think some little ones just express themselves in different ways. Aaron is such a little mr independent he gets really frustrated sometimes and he lashes out a lot if anyone is his space! He went through a small stage of biting just before he started walking which I think with him was down to frustration. He plays lovely at home and at nursery but as soon as I take him into a new situation or playgroup or playcentre if another kid pushes past him or runs too near him he lashes out at them really angry. The other day he even got angry at a one of those dangling punch bag things in a playcentre because it kept touching his back. He stood up smacked it and screamed and shook until he was bright red in the face?!!! I just think they all have different personalities and the world is a pretty confusing place to work out at that age. They don't really know what the impact of biting and hiting is. Sounds a bit full on what they are suggesting hope it all sorts out soon xxx

 

[hay246]

I agree with Kix Anna they just have different ways of expressing themselves and to go down a route of needing 'help' at his age seems daft to me really. Maybe they should try him in the other side as he isn't exactly a baby any more in a sense. He is moving around etc so would probably be happier.
Allister is really good with other kids and is one of those that if another child comes over to go on something he is on he will just move and let them even if I say to him to stay where he is and make the others wait he will just let them (dunno if this makes him a pushover lol) or he just wants an easy life and can't b bothered haha he's happy enough amusing himself really.

Betty the house we haven't got a time really just ASAP and pref before Xmas it's driving me mad really just want to be in there but we are going as fast as we can. Bathroom ,shower room and ours and allisters room will be practically done in the next 2-3 weeks then it's just the kitchen and lounge to do and then we know what kitchen we want just got to order it. And then the garden can be done once we are in. I can't wait to put the before and after photos on fb u can see how far it's come then it's literally been stripped and started again.. As much as it's annoying though it really will be worth the wait but I want to be in for Xmas without a doubt! Stresses me out at the thought of not being!

 

[kix11]

Hay your house sounds really exciting where are you living whilst its getting done? We are putting our house on the market after Xmas I am addicted to the right move ap at the moment! Think it might take a while to sell our house nothing is moving that quickly in our area.

My hubby is in the building trade so we are looking at a lot of big old houses that need stripping that way we can afford the space and location we want. We are thinking about schools now!!

It's my day off with Aaron today love Wednesdays!! Xx

 

[betty14]

Hay I hope your in really soon! Will be lovely once it's done you can relax and enjoy it!

Anna I know this might seem a little 'way out' but with a littler of kittens they play fight and bite each other by means of learning 'how far' they can go, they also bite mum and she tells them off.... It's how they learn to be big cats....

The point I'm trying to make is that babies aren't much different they have to be taught boundaries and how far they can go.... Also is a means of communication I believe that many of the tantrums etc go once they can tell you what they need... This was the case with my niece and nephew, my nephew used to headbut the floor, my sister saw the HV and she told her with boys they have all their testosterone from birth and as they grow they have to develop to learn how to deal with it...

I agree that it seems a little extreme they are taking these measures... He is 15 months old

What's the next steps for you?

Xxx

 

[hay246]

thanks both..

kix me and allister are between my dads/fellas mums so its pretty annoying my partner does shift work so he does 4 days one week 3 the next the days he is off i am at his mums and when the others i am at my dads! which is why its all annoying cuz we arent together properly and i have to pack a bag every time i go to his mums its just grating on me now lol!

it is nice that we have had to start from scratch as we can have it how we want and the outside may be an old stone cottage but the inside will be like a new show home lol! it really is lovely inside and we have insulated all external walls and the roof was a brand new one new steels the lot! with sooo much insulation so its dead toasty dont think we will need heating on haha!!

where i live by the seaside he will go to Cylch Feithrin (welsh for i dunno what haha, but its the pre school) he will go to that 9.15-11.15 from next september for i think 2/3 days a week until he is 3 and then its 5 days. then with schools there is just the local one in barmouth primary/junior.
secondary schools there is only a choice of 3 local ones. 8,10 or 30 miles away, i went to the furthest one away but caught the train to and from so then its only about half hr on train.
so at least i dont need to struggle to choose as there isnt any choice and we havent got the massive population lol! x

 

[annanouska]

these houses sound wonderful. We have a humble home but I like it. Hubby came from a big house and I think he finds it hard at times but I try to help him see should be greatful for what we have. It's his birthday tomorrow...the big 40. He's been moping around over it for weeks

Tbh, I don't think he has an "issue" or needs extra help. I think sinc ethe staff cuts (they used to have a few free staff aside from ratio) they find it harder to keep a rein on things, plus they have extended his room its now 3 months to 2 1/2. Marcus is much more an o,der chi,d for activity but his lack of walking seems to hold him back in people's views but he's doing super now with cruising etc. the next step is filling I. These charts and then they go to be assessed...I can Identify the triggers without all this!! He's only there two days a week so ill let them get on with it.

I. Just fed up of being "odd". He has his funny hypermobilty and o has physio (much better ATM) now this would just like to be normal!

I wish he would dance when I film him to show you it's hilarious. He bum bounces shakes his head and hands

Betty....the kitten analogy is funny but so true I think. I'm certain as he walks and talks he will b ok ( tho I think he will be a "runner" he s now and only crawls!

 

[hay246]

saw this anna on facebook a friend posted it and thought of you! so true!!

 

[annanouska]

thanks that's lovely. I've been feeling much better abut things and to be honest I think this just knocked me a bit. I was getting easy this morning and thought it will be funny telling him about it when he's some genius neurosurgeon or something

 

[MrsHopeful]

Sorry I went AWOL again lol. I am now back to work eek. I am part time 3 days so am off today yay. Congrats Sarah.....hope you are enjoying motherhood.
Awww I have seen those reins with cute backpacks.....so cute!!
Hubby's off work today & after a big lunch we are all in bed.....the boys are asleep & I am being lazy surfing online hehe.
Finn won't take daytime naps very easily now.....& has started to not go to sleep at bedtime aarrgghh. He is tired but won't sleep.

Oohhhh I would love to renovate my home from scratch just how I wanted it we are putting our flat up for sale.....it's too small if we were to have another child.

 

[betty14]

Houses sound amazin! Must be so exiting stripping back and making it truly your own!

We have lots of schools in our area and last year they all amalgamated and became infant/junior schools all in one so when Daisy goes she will do reception- yr 6 all in one school we have one a 5 min walk away that's fab so it's perfect! My nephew just left there and my niece has just started reception

Anna I know it was an odd analogy but glad you got it, I know loads about cats behaviour from breeding and doing seminars etc and if you think of it as raw instinct it applies to us as humans too! A bit like the whole co sleeping thing, ours is one if the few cultures that doesn't readily co sleep with our offspring.... Anyway I digress

Mrs h what do you do for work again? How was it starting back? Is Finn in nursery?

Xxx

 

[Diddums]

Sorry I've been MIA. Been busy with house sorting, ordering and work lol.

Kix congrats on the bfp. How exciting that it was your first month trying!! Do you have a date for your 12wk scan? How you been feeling?

I'm ticking along nicely. Almost 33wks which is unbelievable. Only just started getting umcomfy. Mostly I'm just BOILING all the time! We've had no luck finding a new house so are in the process of redecorating the spare room. At the moment it's got brown carpet and walls and we've bought some new cream carpet and painting the walls a very very pale yellow. Even though baby won't be sleeping in there, and it will only have the chest of drawers and canvas wardrobe we wanted to brighten up the room and make sure it was all clean will post some before and after pics once the room is done.

I've started stocking up on nappies and amazon had an amazing deal and I managed to get 2 lots of 74 pampers nappies for £4.60 each which I though was pretty good. Can't wait until I sort out the baby's room and put her clothes away and set up the swinging crib!

Will take an updated bump pic and post that soon as well

Hope you ladies are keeping well. I will have to catch up on previous posts tomorrow xxx

 

[annanouska]

Sounds great diddums.

Don't buy too many nappies just yet incase lo doesn't fit well in a certain brand or reacts too them. It's a fun game playing find a good nappy! Each baby fits a bit different. If you do find they are no good and are a standard pack/box I've ahem taken them back to Asda "where I purchased them from" but lost the receipt and exchanged for another type

We are redoing Marcus room soon and I have (quick mental count) about 350:400 £££ of zeddy and parsnip mamas and papas stuff and I've tried selling it as a bundle and nobody wants to know. Madness!

In laws have ordered him a new bed its a nice bed but he has a bed it's a single bed, low Ish (I'm hoping as his toddler bed is low now) shaped like a fire engine with siren and light is he ever goi g to sleep again, the boy is truck mad! I've had to confiscate his ride on truck from his room as he would get up and play with it. Recently he's been staying in bed. I turned his bed around the other week and has been doing it since then. No idea why he can still get out but doesn't ATM. May e he's bored of floor sleeping ( best not tell nursery he like to sleep on the floor it may mean he's feral )

 

[MrsHopeful]

Betty......boring office work lol. It was ok going back.....my mum has him.......I hear nursery is expensive so I may not have gone back if I didn't have free childcare off my mum. As I am part time I don't think I will miss him too much because I still have over half of the week with him

Annaouska......have you tried eBay/Gumtree?

Is everyone looking forward to Christmas? Oohhh I have started drinking hot choc already hehe.
Better o to sleep....will never get up for work tomorrow!

 

[kix11]

Thanks Diddums! I don't feel pregnant it is weird having the odd twinge but other than that nothing at all I keep panicking that I should be feeling something I had a lot of cramps with Aaron and boob pain but not got anything this time!

They have made me an appointment on the 7th October with a midwife which is a booking in appointment and she will arrange the scan apparently all different to last time! Not long at all for you now one my friends is 32 weeks so not far behind you and my other friend is due on Monday! Babies everywhere!

Hubby told his parents this morning when they dropped Aaron off on the way to work, I'm not seeing my mum until the 13th October feels forever away don't want to tell her on the phone.

Anna the truck bed sounds fab but ha ha yep I think Aaron would be playing with it all night instead of sleeping! Aaron is still in his cot but thinking of moving him at Christmas into a little bed!

Mrs Hopeful nursery is quite expensive but I honestly think it's been brilliant for Aaron with his social skills and becoming more independent. Hubby's mum would have had Aaron all week if she had it her way but I am glad we decided to split him between nursery and their house because he tires them out plus he learns loads from the other kids and the activities they do. Last night he said he was shouting 'mummy mummy aaron plonker hunting' ha ha he meant conker hunting he had 4 in his tiny coat pocket. They take them out on nature walks in little all in one wetsuits and wellies it's so cute.

Hope everyone is looking forward to the weekend.

xx

 

[LoujaOs83]

Hi ladies! Sorry I've not been on for a while... Slacking I know!! Well here's a picture of Finley to say sorry lol!! How are you all? Finley is 6 weeks old today... I'm loving being a Mummy... The tiredness is totally worth it!! I must post my birth story soon xxx

 

[annanouska]

awww he's so cute.

Kim Aaron sounds like he's doing brill. I'm sure feeling different is normal each pregnancy is different I believe plus your body as err, stretched already a bit so may not twinge as much yet

Nursery is great for them, it's a bit harder with my bush baby ( its his new name since he's so feral hahaha) due to thE little hiccups but he loves going so much and does learn things. He is still terrible speech wise but I think it's just him, he takes everything a little slow and just has his own agenda.

We went to cheshire oaks today, for those who know it just down the road there is a soft play called crazy town (its on google). Looked a real dive outside and we were a bit unsure but was great. Only cost £2.95 too!! Mummy and daddy went on the big frame hahaha, I went down the twisty tube slide with him fearing for my life it was a bit fast. They also had paper plate painting so he joined in.

He can't usually cope at soft play I think it's the noise but there were only around 10 children all under 5 so was ok. No 'incidents' but he did try to grab at a toddler and was pulling on his top but he was in a state of extreme excitement and was so happy to see this boy as well he got all giddy. I moved him as he was trying to grab his arm s didn't want the boy to get hurt.

X so diddums is next, then MIA abbi then... Kix. Hay will be soon after with a suprise from Samie (love to wind her up). Honey...would dh maybe let you have one German baby?

 

[Samie18]

Honestly women if it ever happens here i'm gonna think you're a witch and cursed me lol

We went to a little kiddy prints party this morn. I ordered a mug because i'm too tight to pay for more, even parting with £13 for a mug distressed me lol
Being around other toddlers makes me realise how well behaved Sophia is. I'll put my money on which kids will be the bullies at school! One little girl kept pushing all the other kids over full on rugby tackles, one kept taking the toys off Sophia and slapped her in the face a few times, she just looked at my like 'mum did she seriously just slap me!'
Then a little while later one of the kiddies started screaming and he had a massive bite mark on his arm =o( the mum of the girl who bit was mortified but she didn't tell her off.

Sophia just plays so nicely on her own that i'm worried that she will get bullied when she's at nursery because these kids today were already at nursery so i'm wondering if thats their mechanism to fit in....really hope not or i'll be home schooling until shes a black belt lol j/k

Hope everyone is well

xx

 

[betty14]

Diddums glad your ticking along nicely, not long now

Mrs h it's lovely your mum has him, nice for the too I should think huh? How was your first week back?

Louja lovely picture, so glad your doing well

Anna selling stuff is soooo hard! It's mad you would think people would want to save money on things huh!

Samie I bet the other stuff at the party was mega bucks.... If a mug was 13!!

I keep joking about home schooling Daisy because of how horrid other children can be... Also all the germs

Kix how you feeling?

Hope everyone else is all well

 

[kix11]

Yeah Betty germs are the worst from other kids!! Luckily Aaron has hardly ever been ill he caught chicken pox bless him but nothing else!

I'm feeling great actually really weird I'm worrying a bit because I don't have any symptoms just feel normal .... Hope that's a good thing and nothing to stress about xx

 

[Sinn]

Hi ladies,
I'm another MIA member! I've not been well really and am currently signed off work with nausea/sickness/PGP/exhaustion/stress. Great combination!

47 days to due date and currently very under prepared. Our Moses basket was recalled so we don't have that, although I do feel better because travel system is ordered and paid for and arrives Nov 1st. We also have tons of clothes thanks to family and friends handing them down/buying secondhand.

DH waiting to hear if he's got a new job, nothing wrong with his current one but this one will mean he's closer to home (15 min walk!) rather than 1hr on the bus (City based and no parking). Fingers crossed.

With my PGP I was amazed by how quickly I saw a physio. 3 days between referral and appointment! Got exercises to do which I prefer over a band/belt or crutches (last resort).

Sinn x