flower: hi everyone! i came to you ladies before anyone else- not logged on fb so no idea what is on there but i think word got around from my work! was really sweet as even DH was thinking of you as there is no phone signal in the hospital and he said- should i take the log in for your forum to update the girls
well-we had fun and games and probaly the most ridiculous labour you have ever encountered in which nothing went to plan but the good news is...
Baby Marcus Kane was born on 10th July at 1.06pm weighing 8 lb 10.

from start of early labour to delivery was 57 hours and at no one point was I 'normal'.
We finally got admitted at 10pm on Sunday night when I really couldnt take it any more. I was contracting every 1-2 mins lasting 60/90 seconds. Was told I was still just in early labour but since I was in pain they would keep me in so I could get some decent pills and rest and my induction would go ahead the Monday.
Monday morning DH arrives 8 30 am and the doctor comes at 9 am. He examined me and said I was STill only 3 cm and he wouldnt induce and just wanted to wait and see. I was really upset but stayed in as told and we walked around the hospital doing all i could whilst still contracting the same. By about 3 pm Monday afternoon the contractions were unbearable but kept spacing out so they they wouldnt examine me. i put my foot down and insisted as i said i really am moving on and was 6 cm. got moved to labour ward at this point.
got up there and they to put me on the drip thing and had to have constant monitoring which i wasnt happy at as i wanted active birth. as they couldnt get LO to sit still for the FH monitor to record properly they decided to break waters and fit an internal monitor

it took 3 hrs of attempts and they kept saying his head was too hard to fit it but refused me to carry on without it! eventually it went on...
all Monday night- bad contractions. had an epidural and felt brilliant until the other monitor (the contraction one) kept slipping off and htey kept pulling the strap to rest it and eventually pulled the epidural out

. i declined a resite as the anesatist said it could be a bit problematic so i took to gas and air which i hated but eventually became addicted to it and some pethadine which made me sick as a dog even wiht anti sickness medicine.
this drama ticked on all monday night and tues morning when i got my new midwives. contractions would come and go in intesity and things but eventually 10am tues morning they checked and I was fully dilated. they increased the drip to max but even then i still didnt get the close contractions your meant to. i felt the need to push about 11 30 ish and they got me pushing.
believe me i pushed with all my might and im in agony now for it! i had a few wobbles of saying i couldnt do it i cant push im afraid im nervous etc etc but i had hte best student mw ever and serioulsy i wouldnt have done it without her. i pushed brilliantly and got the head right down and they could see the head coming nicely and crowning.
next think.....four doctors and another 4 mw come barging in and running around shouting differet things, i go into a panic and wobble and just my student mw kept me calm and i just focused on her. i had to have a cut and forceps as apparently he had turned just at last point and his head was stuck and wouldnt budge hey said there was no way i would be able to push the head then. he was also bigger than they thought and as i was shattered they didnt think i could do much more and wouldnt come any furhter.
the whole thing was a real ordeal but he arrived safe and sound and apparantly i have a real designer vagina worth of stitches!!!! his HR incidently was brilliant throughout and the only damage he has are the terrible scratches form all the attempts to put the monitor on!
he seems to be feeding well and is quite a weird baby so far in that he just seems quite content most of the time. he cant stand his hands being wrapped up and sleeps with his arms above his head or shakes them around. he doesnt wake himself up with it which is quite funny.
andrew is besotted with him and seriously gone soft. im going to put some pics up when i can- its takne me 4 hours to post this in between feeding and waddling about! im in a lot of pain with stitches and seriously feel my insides may fall out at any time! also legs have gone crazy again and im worse off than before had! very strange but apparantly normal-ive contacted my gp about it tho as its gone ridiculous!
hope this made sense it was written in parts!
did anyone have a fear of holding baby? i dont mind holding hima nd seeing to him picking him up etc but im terafied of not holding his neck enough and he keeps wirling round fast so it did fall abck a bit earlier

xxx