you would think they could make it more 'personal' wouldnt you? sara a lady I worked with lost her LO at 9 weeks and had to go for the d and c. she said they really looked after her and treated her kindly-she has been given the all clear to TTC again maybe you could give you LO a 'nick name' and maybe write a little memory letter thing. Did they give you a scan picture at all? Everyone copes different , some would prefer not to connect at all but may be nice if you can have some memories for the short time.
Thanks Anna. Yes I have a scan pic but I haven't looked at it yet. I just couldn't. Not yet anyway. Thanks for your kind words and everyone's advice. I really appreciate this group. I hope to know where I am tomorrow x
I have an appt at 11.10 which is good. And yes hoping for it to happen all naturally so not sure what the dr will say today anymore. But glad I have an appt. even though I am really sad I feel positive with the bleed. I bet that sounds weird. I can't really explain but naturally to me seems like that best way. If it continues this way x
make sure you rest and stay off work as I understand it can be very painful and obviously the emotional toll
they normally do a scan in a week or two i think to check everything has passed ok but im sure the doc will explain things for you
I know its not what you want to hear but apparently you are more fertile after a MC or if you have had a baby and lots of people go on to have healthy pregnancies so fingers crossed for your sticky baby soon xxx
I assumed I might need
To be checked at some point to check everything had passed. I don't plan to try for a baby but of it happens in the future then great. Just don't need the pressure after this.
I realise that this can be a painful process. So far feels like period pain. I do plan to go back to work tomorrow if I feel like this. Only if its really bad I won't go
Doctor was brilliant. He rang the hospital and they said they will see me today. So I jumped in my car. And to add to all this my car wouldn't start. So had a breakdown and my sister has kindly offered to come get me so I am just waiting for her to come pick me up.
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