Things are looking up!!

[Laura2919]

I have had some really bad days but also some really good ones.

I am moving out of mum and dad's soon and into my own place with my girls! I'm super happy! Cant wait!!!

I am looking forward to having my own space with my girls and there wont be any of their dad there at all. Its a fresh start.

He has been going out loads and acting like a jack the lad but one day he will come unstuck and will need me for something and he can get lost.

He dont care about anyone else but himself!!

Anyway I have to wait a while because it is having a new bathroom and kitchen and needs so replastering but I am happy all the same! Gives me lots of time to get all my bits together and get ready to do it on my own!!!

One day I wont feel anything for him and I will be happy again!!



Thanks for reading ladies!! xxx

 

[starbucks101]

Congrats hun! having your own place is tough but awesome!

 

[21Rach]

ur ex sounds like mine congrats on the place... we're in the same situation too. feels gd to know things r getting sorted x

 

[scottishgal89]

thats good news that you've got your own place and that things are starting to get better for you!

 

[Laura2919]

ur ex sounds like mine congrats on the place... we're in the same situation too. feels gd to know things r getting sorted x

Yep I think I commented on your post. pretty much same situation.

Feel free to message me if you ever need to hun..

xx

 

[Aidedhoney]

Congrats again on your own place, i cant wait till its my turn!!

My ex is a div as well............hes running about in a brand new 30grand car while i share a bedroom with my 2 kids...../haha joy o joy eh

 

[Laura2919]

Congrats again on your own place, i cant wait till its my turn!!

My ex is a div as well............hes running about in a brand new 30grand car while i share a bedroom with my 2 kids...../haha joy o joy eh

Yep my ex has a new car and is living up the life with going out every night and then texting me acting likea complete twat! Not nasty things just acting like he has me running around after him but its about to change and I am turning the tables. He hasnt text me all day about his kids! I am sooooo frustrated!!! lol..

That cant be easy, Have you had any luck with the council?? I have only had my place 3 weeks. still waiting to move in cos its having loads of work done!

 

[Rhi_Rhi1]

lovely news ! x

 

[Aidedhoney]

Nope no word for me yet not even had one offer. Apparently its due to a backlog on processing the forms lol.

The thing that i found most frustrating is that his family thinks hes the doting dad. I phoned him last sat to tell him i was taking Alex to A n E and it took him 24hours to text andfind out how he was!!!!

Says it all really, me thinks there will be a lot of men with huge regrets one day

 

[Laura2919]

Yeah I think his mum is aware of how childish he acts. Like this going out all the time thingy that he is now on.. He will text today but only because its his day off and he is going to find out whether he can have the girls. I am just going to ignore him until he phones. I hate texting Mark because he can be a right twat!! I am just so angry with him right now and I dont know how to get rid of that anger!!! lol x

 

[Aidedhoney]

The anger does go, for me i woke up one day and decided i couldnt nor would i want to change what had happened, there is something better for us round the corner x

 

[Laura2919]

Yeah I suppose it has only been 4 weeks. I am just so annoyed at his life like I keep saying lol!! He is allowed it all and I have to do everything so he gets the girls in a nice happy mood and I deal with all the other stress of the day!

Hmmm.. Hope it goes soon or I might need some kickboxing classes!!

 

[Alexandra91]

Was really happy to read this good luck in your new home (when u finally get into it!) x

 

[Aidedhoney]

Yeah I suppose it has only been 4 weeks. I am just so annoyed at his life like I keep saying lol!! He is allowed it all and I have to do everything so he gets the girls in a nice happy mood and I deal with all the other stress of the day!

Hmmm.. Hope it goes soon or I might need some kickboxing classes!!

I totally understand, we are doing all the hard work and they seem to think the 4 hours they spend every couple of wks is been a dad!!!

 

[Laura2919]

Yeah I suppose it has only been 4 weeks. I am just so annoyed at his life like I keep saying lol!! He is allowed it all and I have to do everything so he gets the girls in a nice happy mood and I deal with all the other stress of the day!

Hmmm.. Hope it goes soon or I might need some kickboxing classes!!

I totally understand, we are doing all the hard work and they seem to think the 4 hours they spend every couple of wks is been a dad!!!

Yeah exactly that! But I know it will be worth it. When I am out of my mums house I am totally fine but as soon as I am there again I get angry and stressed out. I need to move out soon!! lol x

 

[jamielou]

Congrats on the new place hun! It is nice having your own space! xx