Think I am gonna stay in here for a while now

[puppymom32]

I have been bouncing around between and here and TTC and I think for now its best if I just stay in here with you ladies. This month alone they have had like 22 BFP's dont get me wrong I am happy for everyone just really said that I am not one of them. Think I had a very early MC this month even before AF was due. Goin to Dr to find out what happened I am sure as usual they will just say wait it out and see what happens. I guess I am just feeling pretty down right now.

 

[BigFoot1980]

Hello!
I am sorry for your loss.

Stay where ever your comfortable Hun! I myself sometimes go to TTC section but mostly it makes me sad so I just stay here. Everyone here is so great.

I hope you won't have to stay for long.

Good Luck!

 

[puppymom32]

Thanks Big Foot I was doing it alone for 5 years and have decided I need a bigger support system than just my hubby. Everyone on here is wonderful. Hope you get your BFP soon to Hun.

 

[MillieMoo]

Hi Puppymom. Sorry about your loss. Its nice here because you can chat and rant about things as much as you like without DH getting fed up of all the trying to conceive/baby talk.
We all love to listen. x

 

[Blue12]

I have experienced the same confusion. TTC or LTTTC...and yes the manyyyyyyy BFPs are hard.

Best wishes and thank you to everyone for their support.

 

[BizyBee]

Hi hun! I agree that the TTC section can be hard to take sometimes. I find that I spend most of my time here too.

 

[buddysmomma]

I am with ya hun! I dont mean to be so rude sounding but I just get so mad when someone gets a BFP! I know I shouldnt and that is very wrong of me, I guess I shouldnt be that way. Everyone gets there turn I guess!
Hope everything is well w/you and please if you need to talk to anyone feel free to chat w/me! Im new an dlooking for new friends =)

 

[urchin]

Hi there - I'm wavering too.
At the minute I really only go on the CBFM thread - occasionally I post in other ones, but the BFPs do get me down sometimes.
Not that I am wishing BFNs on anyone....I am just very jealous as I want it to be me so very much

But then I have only been trying for 9 cycles and I wonder if it's a bit cheeky to consider myself LTTTC

 

[Kiki09]

I am with you all on this one, i venture into TTC and contribute if I feel I can help at all but dont really post in there or spend a lot of time, I feel that I just dont fit in that section with having pcos and thyroid problems, on clomid etc, whereas here, everyone is so much more aware of what we are dealing with and the complications etc and can relate and any BFP updates in here are a boost that it does happen to us complicated girls too! lol ...

 

[puppymom32]

Thanks ladies glad to know I am not the only one. Your right it is way different when someone in here gets a BFP. They arent like "Yeah we did it on the first month" that drives me crazy. Guess I am just feeling bummed because everyone around me is having babies or pregnant. My 2 best friends are getting married soon one in Oct and one in Jan and I know they too will be having babies soon I cried to my husband about it last night he thinks I am mad but that will be so hard on me. I just want a baby so bad. It's my turn.

 

[puppymom32]

Hi there - I'm wavering too.
At the minute I really only go on the CBFM thread - occasionally I post in other ones, but the BFPs do get me down sometimes.
Not that I am wishing BFNs on anyone....I am just very jealous as I want it to be me so very much

But then I have only been trying for 9 cycles and I wonder if it's a bit cheeky to consider myself LTTTC

Urchin 9 cycles is a long time. And if its all you think about it can seem like an eternity. I havent got a CBFM but may end up investing in one. Thanks for your support.

 

[hopeful4baby]

Hello Poppymom!

Agree with you and everybody else. I think we all "in the different dimension" to the ordinary TTC board. To be honest, when I joined, I came here straight away. I find I need to talk to people who experienced more than just one month of BD.

Here's to well deserved BFPs on this section!!!

 

[Kiki09]

Hey puppymom32, how are you feeling today? hopefully a little more positive now that you see we are all here for each other and probably frequently feel pants about this whole no BFP thing on a regular basis

 

[puppymom32]

kiki,
Yeah much better than yesterday but still pretty low. But it is nice to have people around you that feel the same way.