Think I have been asked out on Facebook, but not sure he knows about bump!

[MidnightSun]

We have been flirty friends for years, but haven't actually seen one another in about 3 yrs, he always asks me out every so often, and I always politely decline ... I really don't know why?! He's hardly ever on Facebook and I haven't noticed him comment on any of my pregnancy stuff or photos etc...

He's messaged me saying he's going to be near my neck of the woods on business in a little while and has asked if I fancy a drink whilst he's here.

I deliberated on what to message him back as I really don't know if he knows about my 'situation' ... (ie; father of my baby throwing a huge wobbler and then running a mile when he saw a positive pregnancy test) ... either he does know and doesn't care as he's a decent bloke, OR he's completely oblivious and doesn't realise I'm 20 weeks pregnant ....

In the end I simply messaged him back about bits and bobs and then tagged on the end regarding the drink, that I wondered if he'd seen my profile picture at all? It's the same as this one.

So, here I am sat waiting for a reply! Knowing my luck he won't be on there for days so I'll be none the wiser

 

[MummyJade]

Good luck.... xx

 

[MidnightSun]

Thanks love. I think it will end up that he doesn't realise in all honesty and that I simply won't get a reply.

Nevermind though, quite enjoying life on my own if I am honest x

 

[lovejoy]

Ah poo, sounds like he didn't realize or why would he ask you for a drink? knowing you can't drink? he must have seen the photo probably didn't look at it properly. You never know he still might want to met up as friends and see?

 

[MidnightSun]

We shall see, although I would be suprised if he didn't know... he's very observant and astute normally.

I'm certainly in no rush to find Mr Right, as I don't believe there is one!

 

[MidnightSun]

Hmm... well apparently he didn't know, and wanted to know all about the situation etc, but at the end of it asked if I'd still like to go for a fruit juice lol

I don't know, I just feel that with me being 20 weeks pregnant that going on a date just seems a bit odd?

 

[xoxsarahxox]

hiya, never been in your situation but i say go for it. if you like him and get along with him, whats the worst that could happen?? just because you are single and pregnant it doesnt mean your life has to end, you still need to keep yourself happy. i have a friend whos OH left her the second she found out she was pregnant. she got very friendly with a guy we know during her pregnany and he became a massive rock for her throughout it all and was really there for her. she had her baby a month ago now and he dotes on her child. dont be put off from having a life due to pregnancy, there will be plenty of time for that once LO arrives . xx

 

[MissRhead]

I agree with the above post Hun xx

 

[MummyJade]

I would def go along... you aint doing nothing wrong...
just enjoy yourself... and not too much fruit juice! xx

 

[Surreal]

I don't know, I just feel that with me being 20 weeks pregnant that going on a date just seems a bit odd?

I agree with the others -- go out, have fun! FOB left me when I was 5 weeks pregnant, and at about 24 weeks pregnant, I had a guy ask me out! Didn't give a hoot that I was pregnant, and we actually dated for quite a while after the that. It really improved my overall outlook and helped me to over come my hang up with FOB.

We aren't together now, but we still are really good friends, and he's offered to help with LO, if I need it.

So in the long run, it could be a really positive experience for you, even if nothing comes of it.

 

[Linz88]

i dont drink.. but my bestfriend always says do you want to go for a drink with me.. u dont have to drink alcohol.. a facebook profile picture is pretty hard to miss.. hez probz jus a nice guy gd luck xxx