Think i'm ready!

[aflight84]

Hey Girls,
Well as you may or may not know. 2 weeks ago today i lost the twins one to ectopic. I'm starting to feel human again now and just about ready to start ttc again.
I'm aiming to go back to work on a gradual return as of next monday if my dr agrees.
I'm not sure how i'm going to take to ttc again i don't know if i should temp, cbfm or just take each day as it comes.
Hope all you girls are doing ok
Anna x

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

wow babe you sure? i thought you had to have a certain amount of time break before you could TTC again.

xx

 

[krissi]

Hi hun, its lovely to see you again but take it at your own pace babes and make sure you are as good as you can be emotionally and physically and remember same as before we are all here to support you xxx

 

[aflight84]

Thanks girls,
They told me that i could start trying again when i felt ready i guess until i try i wont know for sure how i feel. I'm not sure if i want to go mad and do the whole charting thing or just to take it easy and see how we feel.
So much has happened to be honest i'm just glad i still have a great relationship cos at one stage i was scared i might have pushed adam away but he's been amazing!

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

Iv always heard its 3 months min untill you should try again for healing purpose.. i asked a girl thats had the same as you.
Youv been through so much babe. Just take it slowly a day at the a time.

xxx

 

[BigFoot1980]

Its so good that you are feeling a little better.

 

[aflight84]

they recommend you wait until you've had one natural cycle but up to the patient and how they feel so i'll see how i get on over the next week or so will probably start trying after AF shows her face!

 

[Marg_27]

Hey sweetie, Im sorry for what you have been thru, I kno how ur feeling cuz I went thru EXACTLY the same thing last year.
But I really feel you should rethink ur TTC so soon.
Talk to an expert in ectopics. Do you kno you have an EXTREMELY HIGH risk of having another ectopic if you become pregnant straight after a previous one, and therefore risk losing your other tube!
I was told to wait 6 weeks before having sex and a minimum of 3 months before ttc again. I dont kno if u kno my story, I was the same, carrying twins, 1 mc'd from the womb, the other in my tube, its all in my pg journal, 1st entry if u feel the need to read.

Please please please think long and hard as this is a massive decision xxx

 

[aflight84]

thanks hun i'll have a look. I was told i could have sex when i was ready in myself and ideally to wait for 1 cycle before trying. I'm seeing my dr this week to talk going back to work so i'll talk to her about it as i'm really confused. Thanks x

 

[CareBear]

Glad you're feeling better and looking to the future

 

[aflight84]

I was told to wait 6 weeks before having sex and a minimum of 3 months before ttc again. I dont kno if u kno my story, I was the same, carrying twins, 1 mc'd from the womb, the other in my tube, its all in my pg journal, 1st entry if u feel the need to read.

Please please please think long and hard as this is a massive decision xxx

Hey Chick,
Just had a read i'm not sure it's different depending on EP if it ruptures or not so i'm going to speak to my dr cos it's well confusing!

 

[Marg_27]

Good idea, but I think its all the same. Its due to swelling and stuff from the op, which you wud hav either way xx

 

[aflight84]

ah ok i'll defo ask then! thanks hun x x x

 

[Marg_27]

anytime chick, Im always around if u ever need to ask anything, no matter how trivial xx

 

[jonnanne3]

I am glad to see you are feeling better. Take your time. You will know when you are ready.

 

[HAYS]

Hey lovely, glad your feeling better!! we are all here to support you
xxxx

 

[maz]

Glad you are starting to feel more human again ... take TTC in your own time and remember we are all here to chat to as and when you feel the need ...

 

[buffycat]

lots of hugs to you...

maybe taking each day as it comes is a good starting point.......you need to heal....