Think ive really messed it up!! :(

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  1. flower01

    flower01 Expecting Baby 3!!

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    Ladies!
    i think i have totally miss calculated something.

    In nov and dec i had a period every 20 days so when trying to figure out when id ovulate i put in the lil calculator online that my cycle was 20 days.

    Up until nov and before i had my baby girl my cycle was 28 days

    so, as i still havent had a period since dec im starting to think...

    What if my cycle has returned to 28 days?
    Im worried as it works out id have ovulated the days i thought i did (and therefore did the deed) but as i did 3 tests and got BFN i had a bottle of wine on saturday eve :(

    :(

    what if we have actually concieved and i drank that wine

    part of me really wants to be obviously but part of me thinks maybe its best if AF shows up cos i may have hurt whatever is in there if there was!

    what do you think?

    aghhhhhh
    xx
     
  2. LoolaBear

    LoolaBear 3 On Earth 1 in Heaven

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    a gowing baby doesnt start recieving blood from you until 8/9 weeks pregnant so if you are pregnant drinking right now wouldnt really do any harm, just as long as the alcohol is out of your system before 8/9 weeks gone then no harm should come to the baby. so try not to worry too much hun, and fingers crossed for you xx
     
  3. flower01

    flower01 Expecting Baby 3!!

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    omg seriously!?!

    oh thankgod!

    thankyou so much for your reply!
    now i can relax a bit and maybe get excited that it might happen this month!!

    :flower:
     
  4. LoolaBear

    LoolaBear 3 On Earth 1 in Heaven

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    yeah seriously, up until 7 weeks the baby feeds from the yolk sac alone whilst the placenta starts growing and the blood flows start connecting, then within week 8 and 9 a small ammount of blood flow from the placenta starts flowing from mum to baby and its not until the 16/17 week of pregnancy that the placenta takes over completely.
    i think if everyone knew this they wouldnt panic quite so much about having the odd drink whilst ttc and in early pregnancy.

    good luck and i hope you get a sticky :bfp: soon xx
     
  5. ebony2010

    ebony2010 Pregnant with #2

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    Think of all the girls/women you hear about going out binge drinking and getting pregnant and going on to have healthy babies.

    Don't panic! :hugs:

    If your periods are still getting back to normal and you want to find out when your ovulating you might be best charting and signing up with fertility friend. I have 26-28 day cycles and thought I was ovulating in the middle like I should but after 9 months of not getting pregnant I'm started charting and I'm not ovulating in the middle, its later on. It's really opened my eyes. x
     
  6. flower01

    flower01 Expecting Baby 3!!

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    thankyou very much ladies! :hug: xxxx
     

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