This limbo is driving me crazy!!!

[Chilli]

Well it's 5 weeks tomorrow since I had my D&C and so far NO SIGNS whatsoever of ANYTHING. No period ,all OPK negative, have done a couple ofs. I was straight after my D&C so can't understand why my body hasn't sorted itself out yet. It's driving me crazy I feel so in limbo and unable to think about anything else.
I just want to scream!!!!!!!!
Was dtd from week 2 on a 2-3day cycle as TTC straight away, but nearly 4 weeks on I'm finding it hard to sustain as it all seems a bit pointless when there's nothing going on.
My OH doesn't understand why this is upsetting me so much and please don't tell me to be patient like people keep saying cos I can't function til I know what's going on.
I'm so fed up!
Any ideas?

 

[nervouspains]

Hi Hun, I had no signs of my AF, until actual day 5w+1, in the morning i had that 'af' pain, then I went to the loo and there she was
Just like a normal af, lasted about 4-5 days, then my next one was 31 days, and now waiting for 3rd... or
xx

 

[becky77]

hi hun its horrible waiting in limbo, my af arrived 5 weeks after my erpc ,but it can take upto 6 weeks.
i felt it helped me to try and concentrate on getting myself feeling strong and getting ready for ttc again, other than that just try to keep occupied , i know, i know its shit and really hard to think about anything other than whats happening with your body, but there aint nothing else you can do.
whoever said patients is a virtue needs shooting haha
xx

 

[rachjim98]

Sorry chilli for the wait and the feeling of being out of control with your body. I know it is not funny but I had to laugh about the patients thing above.. That is one of my sayings: Patients is a virtue I did not learn very well! I hope everything comes quickly for you. Sorry I have no answers, am just thinking of you

 

[franky]

so sorry you are feeling like this.
i had a mc 31 days ago naturally and i am waiting for af, have no signs and i am getting impatient
x

 

[mazza2003]

I am worse than you! I had ectopic 2weeks +3 and I am climbing the walls! I know I am impatient but nothing is of interest to me until AF comes ( lord I never thought I would hear myself say that!).
I went back to work yesterday and run home asap to do an OPK, which actually showed a faint double line and this week not even faint. Nothing!

I feel like I am hanging by a thread!
Good luck with your wait, I hope it wont be much longer!

 

[Las78]

Hun, can totally understand how you feel, I too feel like this and likewise it's driving me mad, just wish AF would hurry up. I've been having PMS symptoms for 2 weeks now and 2 BFN's aswell. I thought I knew my body till all this happened. Must admit it's messing my mind up and I too feel very anxious and impatient waiting, also think whats the point TTC again when my body isn't doing what it should be (again). Hang in there hun, thinking of you x

 

[Chilli]

Thanks guys, as always helps to know I'm not alone and unique in how I feel.
Nervous, thanks for reaasurance that not abnormal
Becky, am trying to focus on getting fitter including enrolling myself in race for life so some good will come out of this revolting time!
Thanks Rach
Franky & Mazza & Las, let's hope we all get there soon!! Damned AF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Peach Blossom]

Oh hon... I hope that you get some signs of something soon! Perhaps the infection has mixed things up a bit... fingers crossed for us all that we get or af soon...

p.s don't be patient! (is that better than saying be patient?!... sorry DH keeps trying to tell me I'm not funny, but I just won't believe him!!)

 

[surreysharon]

Im in the same boat. ERPC 18 Feb and still waiting for AF. I keep getting pelvic cramps so think AF round the corner but i wish it would come so i can get myself back in order and try again

x