How/when does it stop 
Lana never slept in with us as a baby, she used to wake but would settle in her cot besode us with milk. She was 27 months when we moved her out of our room and into her own where I would still give her milk if she woke up
She falls asleep on the sofa atm and we take her up later bur if she wakse overnight I cant doaanything othet than bring her in with us, I dont really mind, but it doesnt make fornthe best nights sleep so would prefer if she could just stay in her own bed
The problem we have is her crying, I will do anything to make sure she doesnt wake up her brother, he is autistic and has sleeping problems which he gets mwdication for but if he gets qoken at 3am he is uo for the day. So I do whqtever is easiest, I dont really mind, just qondered when she might deciee her bed is ok to stay in all night
I thought about changing the whole house routine so she goes to bed beforw her brother as if I put her up awake and she is noisy he wont settle, but im not sure the shift in routine for him is worth it tbh as It has taken years to get his sleep routine established
Not sure what I am looking for, ideas possibly, and as I dont know of any older kids who co sleep I know it has to end soonish but WHEN lol

Lana never slept in with us as a baby, she used to wake but would settle in her cot besode us with milk. She was 27 months when we moved her out of our room and into her own where I would still give her milk if she woke up
She falls asleep on the sofa atm and we take her up later bur if she wakse overnight I cant doaanything othet than bring her in with us, I dont really mind, but it doesnt make fornthe best nights sleep so would prefer if she could just stay in her own bed
The problem we have is her crying, I will do anything to make sure she doesnt wake up her brother, he is autistic and has sleeping problems which he gets mwdication for but if he gets qoken at 3am he is uo for the day. So I do whqtever is easiest, I dont really mind, just qondered when she might deciee her bed is ok to stay in all night

I thought about changing the whole house routine so she goes to bed beforw her brother as if I put her up awake and she is noisy he wont settle, but im not sure the shift in routine for him is worth it tbh as It has taken years to get his sleep routine established
Not sure what I am looking for, ideas possibly, and as I dont know of any older kids who co sleep I know it has to end soonish but WHEN lol