littlelessig
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Hey everyone, I'm new to the forums. So , I guess this is my intro.
My Fiance and I just got engaged on 4/4/13-our 7th anniversary together.
We are getting married next June ('14) in St. Thomas.
I had weight loss surgery august of last year ('12)
With all that being said, we are "kind of" trying. As soon as we got engaged...we "tried" about 4 times that week while we were in disney. Then I ended up getting my period.
So heres my questions....
1)when should I start tracking? I would like for it to happen when its meant to be but i feel like i should be tracking ovulation and stuff.
2)when should i start worrying? If i don't get pregnant after trying a certain amt of time...when should I worry? How long does it normally take to get pregnant.
3) I have vaginismus. Does anyone else on the forum have it? (its tightening of the vaginal muscles that makes it pretty hard sometimes to have intercourse.....let alone a doctors visit...*yes i know i will have to go to a doctors visit...eventually*)
We are going to be "trying" ----or not preventing for a couple more months as we don't want to be 9 months pregnant at the wedding lol...we would like it to happen before then .....or right after. I understand I can't fly being in the 3rd trimester.
I am a now healthy 27 (almost 28) year old. And he is a pretty healthy (slightly over weight) 28 year old.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
My Fiance and I just got engaged on 4/4/13-our 7th anniversary together.
We are getting married next June ('14) in St. Thomas.
I had weight loss surgery august of last year ('12)
With all that being said, we are "kind of" trying. As soon as we got engaged...we "tried" about 4 times that week while we were in disney. Then I ended up getting my period.
So heres my questions....
1)when should I start tracking? I would like for it to happen when its meant to be but i feel like i should be tracking ovulation and stuff.
2)when should i start worrying? If i don't get pregnant after trying a certain amt of time...when should I worry? How long does it normally take to get pregnant.
3) I have vaginismus. Does anyone else on the forum have it? (its tightening of the vaginal muscles that makes it pretty hard sometimes to have intercourse.....let alone a doctors visit...*yes i know i will have to go to a doctors visit...eventually*)
We are going to be "trying" ----or not preventing for a couple more months as we don't want to be 9 months pregnant at the wedding lol...we would like it to happen before then .....or right after. I understand I can't fly being in the 3rd trimester.
I am a now healthy 27 (almost 28) year old. And he is a pretty healthy (slightly over weight) 28 year old.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.