MeaganMackenz
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I hope no one minds me posting here, you gals are closer to the end and may have more definite responses to my problem then my second trimester group
I'm a bit over the half way mark on baby number 3, my girls are almost 6 and 3. Hubby works construction and is facing having to go out of town for work this spring. Which is when I'm due. We still don't have the details yet like when he leaves, when he's home etc but we've never been apart in 7 years nevermind when a newborn is coming.
I don't know how I'm going to cope and I'm looking for suggestions or support from anyone who has or is doing a baby or a baby and older kids solo, or with little fob help.
We think he'll be gone Monday to Friday, or Monday to Saturday afternoon. We're also trying to arrange that he's in town for a month around my due date and after the baby comes to help with the adjustments, but then he's gone again.
My family is limited and unfortunately unable to help greatly. My dad has dementia and is still at home with my mom so she is quite consumed with that, trying to keep him home as long as she can before he needs a care home. I have 3 siblings but only 1 lives in province and is not kid orientated. No aunts or uncles or cousins I'm close to to lean on- its very limited on my side.
Hubby has more family here then I do but the relationships are fragile and just starting to be mended. His sister would help I know that but the relationship with her is always iffy and breaks down easily. His mom's an alcoholic and does "soft" drugs like weed. His dad works all overnights and has two young boys ages 8 and 6 himself that takes up his time.
My children's godparents are a godsend, they're always willing to help as much as they can but they both work full time and have 3 kids of their own. I can't go to them for every little thing ya know?
So long long story short, is there any advice or suggestions for coping with a baby or multiple kids and a baby solo? I'm all ears thank you!
I'm a bit over the half way mark on baby number 3, my girls are almost 6 and 3. Hubby works construction and is facing having to go out of town for work this spring. Which is when I'm due. We still don't have the details yet like when he leaves, when he's home etc but we've never been apart in 7 years nevermind when a newborn is coming.
I don't know how I'm going to cope and I'm looking for suggestions or support from anyone who has or is doing a baby or a baby and older kids solo, or with little fob help.
We think he'll be gone Monday to Friday, or Monday to Saturday afternoon. We're also trying to arrange that he's in town for a month around my due date and after the baby comes to help with the adjustments, but then he's gone again.
My family is limited and unfortunately unable to help greatly. My dad has dementia and is still at home with my mom so she is quite consumed with that, trying to keep him home as long as she can before he needs a care home. I have 3 siblings but only 1 lives in province and is not kid orientated. No aunts or uncles or cousins I'm close to to lean on- its very limited on my side.
Hubby has more family here then I do but the relationships are fragile and just starting to be mended. His sister would help I know that but the relationship with her is always iffy and breaks down easily. His mom's an alcoholic and does "soft" drugs like weed. His dad works all overnights and has two young boys ages 8 and 6 himself that takes up his time.
My children's godparents are a godsend, they're always willing to help as much as they can but they both work full time and have 3 kids of their own. I can't go to them for every little thing ya know?
So long long story short, is there any advice or suggestions for coping with a baby or multiple kids and a baby solo? I'm all ears thank you!