Thanks for your replies. You all sound very similar to what we are doing just now.
8 or 8.30am - 5oz milk and cereal e.g. 1 whitabix, rice crispies, shreadded wheat
10.30am snack - something like raisins, rice cakes, breadsticks, fruit
12noon - lunch - something like sandwich, toastie, pasta, crackers, soup and yogart
2.30pm - snack
5pm - dinner - chicken, pasta, fish pie etc and yogart and sometimes some rice cakes, breadsticks if she asks
7.30pm - milk for bed about 8-9oz
I am finding just now that DD is not eating much breakfast but is then asking for lots at snack time!! We are going through the I want phase.