... i'm really starting to regret it! she's planned to arrive (we live a flight away) around my due date. i really tried to encourage her to come later but she ignored all hints and efforts on my part. now i wish i had been more firm. i really don't want her at the hospital but i'm worried that once she's in the house, it will be awkward or strange to leave her at home when dh and i rush off. so i find myself worrying about when i'll go into labor bc i'd like it to happen before she comes. her trip has become a big stressor all around. i don't think she believes we'll be able to handle things without her help, but the truth is, as much as i love her, she's one of those people who believes they are being very helpful when, in fact, they are creating more work. plus my husband has just a few weeks off from work to bond with the new baby. i just wish we'd kept it to the three of us; i think i made a big mistake. am i overreacting?