I few weeks ago I had a minor arguement with mum and sister when I dared to mention that the midwives now encourage homebirths for first time mums if the pregnancy has gone well. My mum thought I was wrong and my sister decided to tell me how she would have died and my niece would have died if they'd not been in hospital (my niece got her shoulder stuck so the midwife had to pull her out!)
Anyway, I've been umming and ahhing for a couple of weeks and I always come back to the same thing. I want a natural hypno-birth with my husband present in a relaxed atmosphere with no scary sounds and no one rushing about. So a homebirth seems ideal. I had to research it though to make sure it really is safe.
We live 20 mins from the hospital on a good day and no traffic and no snow (baby due in Feb) -So in an emergency, I hope I'd be able to get to the hospital on time. What do you think?
Anyway, last week I had dinner with mum and she asked if I was still thinking about a homebirth and I said yes. When I told her all the statistics she actually quite warmed to the idea.
I just always come back to the What if's.
Anyway, I've been umming and ahhing for a couple of weeks and I always come back to the same thing. I want a natural hypno-birth with my husband present in a relaxed atmosphere with no scary sounds and no one rushing about. So a homebirth seems ideal. I had to research it though to make sure it really is safe.
We live 20 mins from the hospital on a good day and no traffic and no snow (baby due in Feb) -So in an emergency, I hope I'd be able to get to the hospital on time. What do you think?
Anyway, last week I had dinner with mum and she asked if I was still thinking about a homebirth and I said yes. When I told her all the statistics she actually quite warmed to the idea.
I just always come back to the What if's.