KahluaCupcake
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I don't even know why I'm posting here........I just found out. My miscarriage isn't even complete. I don't know if I'm going to want to wait a month or a year. Nothing will ever replace my little one.
But I guess I just want answers.
The doctor on call who had to deliver my bad news was pretty cold. I mean I guess she's not going to break down and cry with me, but she was just so...factual, referring to my baby as "tissue" and saying how common miscarriages are, and not acknowledging my grief...just probably irritated that she was in the ER on a Friday night and wanting am answer if I want a d&c tonight or not. She told me it's recommended whether I take the d&c or miscarry on my own that I should wait at least 3 months before trying again. But I hear often of people miscarrying at all stages of pregnancy and getting pregnant the next month.
I can't NTNP or just "hope" it happens...I only got pregnant by using clomid and a sperm donor. So it has to be entirely planned.
I was almost 11 weeks. And the cramping hasn't even started yet.
I just want to know so it's one less thing to think about. I feel like a failure as it is. I'm pretty sure it was caused by the serious stress over the past week that I was apparently too emotional to handle better and let it get to me.
I'll be seeing my regular obgyn on Monday for another ultrasound and to get his opinion. But I'm 26, and this was my first pregnancy.
But I guess I just want answers.
The doctor on call who had to deliver my bad news was pretty cold. I mean I guess she's not going to break down and cry with me, but she was just so...factual, referring to my baby as "tissue" and saying how common miscarriages are, and not acknowledging my grief...just probably irritated that she was in the ER on a Friday night and wanting am answer if I want a d&c tonight or not. She told me it's recommended whether I take the d&c or miscarry on my own that I should wait at least 3 months before trying again. But I hear often of people miscarrying at all stages of pregnancy and getting pregnant the next month.
I can't NTNP or just "hope" it happens...I only got pregnant by using clomid and a sperm donor. So it has to be entirely planned.
I was almost 11 weeks. And the cramping hasn't even started yet.
I just want to know so it's one less thing to think about. I feel like a failure as it is. I'm pretty sure it was caused by the serious stress over the past week that I was apparently too emotional to handle better and let it get to me.
I'll be seeing my regular obgyn on Monday for another ultrasound and to get his opinion. But I'm 26, and this was my first pregnancy.