laura109
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Help!! I absolutely understand toddlers will get clingy at some stage and its not a problem but its getting extremely stressfull. It triggered 6 weeks ago when i took her to nursery 4 times. The nursery was not good and to cut a long story short i took her out again.
Obviously theres a new baby coming. She seems excited she plays DR's with the bump and kisses my tummy through her own choice. Despite this im aware shes St I'll going to feel abit of insecurity etc but its reducing me to tears almost because she is reluctant to be without me.
She used to love time with daddy. He took her to the park after work and into the garden. It helped me get on or rest. She used to let her dad and me take it in turns to bath her and put her to bed. She has gone from that to screaming till she's nearly sick if he or anyone else tries to do anything for her. She squeezes my hands in fear and pleas with me to let her stay home. She refused to go to the shop with her dad yesterday and the park. It resulted in her screaming and near ly squashing my stomach climbing on me.she refused to go with her auntie the other day who could see i was exhausted and offered to take her for tea and to play with her cousins. I never get offered a break usually from family and was just so disappointed that the 2 hours peace i was offered couldn't happen.
Ive played with her. Took her to playgroups etc but i am absolutely worn out and aching. She stands crying at the side of the bath as i shower.she wont let me nip upstairs for a wee or to grab something without shouting mummy and following me. Shes in my bed every night after i spend an hour laying on her bed with her every night whilst she falls asleep,for her to wake up in early hours. She screams when i go in appointments. Its absolutely emotional ly draining me. She is also constantly whinging and sitting right next to me. How do i help her get over this. How will i manage a baby with her being so intense. I understand her feelings but it cant go on like this. Help x
Obviously theres a new baby coming. She seems excited she plays DR's with the bump and kisses my tummy through her own choice. Despite this im aware shes St I'll going to feel abit of insecurity etc but its reducing me to tears almost because she is reluctant to be without me.
She used to love time with daddy. He took her to the park after work and into the garden. It helped me get on or rest. She used to let her dad and me take it in turns to bath her and put her to bed. She has gone from that to screaming till she's nearly sick if he or anyone else tries to do anything for her. She squeezes my hands in fear and pleas with me to let her stay home. She refused to go to the shop with her dad yesterday and the park. It resulted in her screaming and near ly squashing my stomach climbing on me.she refused to go with her auntie the other day who could see i was exhausted and offered to take her for tea and to play with her cousins. I never get offered a break usually from family and was just so disappointed that the 2 hours peace i was offered couldn't happen.
Ive played with her. Took her to playgroups etc but i am absolutely worn out and aching. She stands crying at the side of the bath as i shower.she wont let me nip upstairs for a wee or to grab something without shouting mummy and following me. Shes in my bed every night after i spend an hour laying on her bed with her every night whilst she falls asleep,for her to wake up in early hours. She screams when i go in appointments. Its absolutely emotional ly draining me. She is also constantly whinging and sitting right next to me. How do i help her get over this. How will i manage a baby with her being so intense. I understand her feelings but it cant go on like this. Help x