My OH wanted to go out this afternoon to have a look for a suit then go for a drink with his friend. I asked if he would be back for tea and he said they will probably make a night of it. This means being out from about 2pm-12am. I asked why he couldnt come home for tea maybe 7ish and he said he could come home for tea and go back out but i said dont bother. Now he isnt going at all. I dont see why he can go out for a few hours. There are only two of them going and they speak every day. What could they possibly need to do for ten hours that leaves me at home all day with the baby the second day running? Am i asking too much?