totally disappointed with some of the ladies on here

[mommy101]

yesterday posted something i was scared about and worried and looking for calming words of advice and understanding but instead i got

hate private messages and total written abuse back

i was sharing my situation and was shocked with the result that i got private messages saying i was wrong, a bitch, a horrible wife and soo many other hurtful things


it has affected me so much that this will be my last post and i am deleting my account

i am shocked and very disappointed

 

[chezziepie]

Hi

Very sorry to hear that. Did you report them? People can be removed for that rather that you having to leave

 

[hope4bump]

i missed your posts as i am not on here regularly, but i dont think you should delete your account just because other people are rude. Sorry that you didnt get the support you needed

 

[highhopes19]

wow!! i dont know what thread it was or was about.... but OMG people sent you hate messages....totally shocked hope your ok hun, sorry people were so mean to you

xxxx

 

[kitty17]

I'm really sorry that you experienced this. You need to report the abuse straight away. But a word of warning as well - I think threads like this are against the rules and it's probably going to be locked.

 

[BabyDeacon]

if this is in regards to the *porn* i had not posted or read,, but i actually feel revolted about porn so would feel the same as you if my husband had done this... report them babes there are some ladies here that are proper DEBBIE DOWNERS! and unfortuantly this is what i heard when i was nearing the end of 2nd tri... so there gradually coming into 3rd tri... i hope u can just delete the inbox and stay on give the rest of us a chance xxx

 

[vintage67]

Over the porn thread? you got private hate messages over that? Wow.

 

[vhal_x]

^^ That's what I was thinking! The mods should be able to see the private messages (I'm assuming) so will be able to moderate them and take the necessary action xx

 

[nicmum2b]

Ah I remember that thread. I can't believe people sent you hate messages :s that's really weird. I thought everyone was nice on this forum!! Report them like the others said. Sorry to hear that xx

 

[mommy101]

yeah over the *porn* thread one person sent me a message saying i should my hubby a break not all men want to make love to pregnant woman and i should be thankful he isnt *doing* someone else

 

[Periwinkle]

Sorry to hear that. If it was about that porn thread that's really odd that people felt the need to send you PMs about it! How weird.

 

[bumpwanted]

Report the lot of them hun , I am sorry they had nothing better to do than upset u when u wanted advise , and someone to talk to ;(((

 

[hellywelly]

Sorry but if it was the porn thread I think that everyone supported you in their messages - myself included - basically no one was giving you a hard time - people were just giving you their personal opinions on what they accept and won't accept - I am right behind you hun - so sorry you got personal messages though - I wouldn't leave I would report these people if you have been called names. The thread seemed very topical and calm?? xxxx

 

[Pielette]

Seconding what everyone else has said - please report them! These people are in the minority on here, I'm sure, this is a great forum in the main and I'd hate for you to lose it when they still get to carry on using it.

 

[Serendipity40]

ahh dont be deleting your account..i know i have felt same on some of these message boards when people are not considerate of your feelings. some people tend to forget that a real person is at other end of a post & u didnt need to hear barrage of unsupporting comments whatever the reason was...you needed understanding & some compassion..we are not all the same things that offend us or upset us are different for everyone...i often run through a post i would like to type on a board but then stop myself due to being afraid of a barrage of negative comments...so when you do post, whatever the subject you are being very brave & hopefully will find at least some comfort from other posters, especially the nature of this site...

take a while to calm down, let go of the negative comments..imagine u have placed a big mirror in your inbox & bounce their negativity back to them...everyone is different....we have to remember that...if you havent anything positive to say to someone why would you go out of your way to post negativity??

 

[vintage67]

I tell you what I think is funny. All the threads on being too "fat" to be attractive! Pregnant is NOT being "fat" and plenty of fat women get a lot of action! Yes, speaking from experience!

And there's a whole sector of porn dedicated to fat women and to pregnant women. To each his own.

 

[Maman]

wow i cant believe someone would pm you that! how rude! Dont leave because of that person. In my post i didnt agree with you but i certainly wouldnt go pm'ing you nasty messages over it, how you feel is how you feel. I hope you didnt take offense at my rply though, you asked our opinion and i gave you mine.

Dont let someone push you out, thats not nice xxx

 

[BeckyBoo]

I replied to the same thread you have posted on the second trimester. Posting this thread multiple times will only annoy further people.

As previous people have mentioned, you should report directly to a moderator if someone has upset you regarding harrassing posts or PM's.

 

[jaytee146]

I remember commenting on your thread it was about your oh right?

don't let the ignorance of some people make you leave. I think you should report their message like someone mentioned eariler... Sorry you had to go through that.

 

[sarah2409]

Don't leave! Report them and hopefully they will be made to leave. I can't stand nasty people on forums who think they are superior! Do people have to choose between a partner who watches porn or one who cheats on them. Some of these women must live on a different planet!!