Totally missed the boat...

[loopylew]

feel gutted today, ovulation day was yesterday and cos of work we we're both knackered last night and didn't have any energy to BD, DH said i was putting "pressure" on on him, said we'd BD this morning but woke up late and DH had to go collect his daughter, as he has her on a Saturday( don't know if that makes me feel worse aswell). We BD'ed on day 21, a day before ov and we can try tonight but i feel like we've missed the boat when we havn't BD'ed on ov day. Sorry to moan...

 

[polo_princess]

maybe a rest for a cycle will do you good eh, hope you havent missed it though

and there was me thinking you were referring to yourself being mad lol

 

[FJL]

If you bd'ed a day before O there is still a chance hun!

How do you know you have already O'ed? OPK's or just your normal body signs around O?

I'm sorry you missed out on the prime day, but there is still a good chance the sperm got that eggie

 

[loopylew]

Just going by cm, yesterday eve and this morning it was still clear and stretchy.

 

[Arcanegirl]

If you got a BD in the day before then you still have a very good chance.
Alot of people think theyve missed the big day but still get pg.

 

[loopylew]

Thanks Arcanegirl, fingers crossed, we'll BD tonight aswell. We're still in our every other day pattern i just feel gutted that we didn't BD on what i think was my ovulation day as that was the plan.

 

[CK Too]

Don´t worry about it too much - easier said than done I know - it aint over til the fat lady screams!!!

We were BD´ing every other day just before OV etc and then fell out of the routine, cos of early shifts at work and we had an argument and didn´t talk to each other!!!!, so BD´ing was out of the question!!! I thought that was that for that month, but still fell pregnant. You still have a good chance.

 

[faith_may]

I'm so sorry if you need anything let me know

 

[loopylew]

Thank you
That has inspired me some what. Think i'm just feeling miserable today about ttc and my long cycles. Feels like when we don't BD on the right day its so long for another go. Hope you have a H and H 9 months xx

 

[NeyNey]

Remember those little swimmers can live for days after BD!
Best of luck sweetie

 

[diva4180]

I'm sorry hun, don't give up hope! I'm still keeping my fingers crossed for you!

 

[babe2ooo]

well you never know, i dont think me and my OH bd on my O-day and i'm preggers so you might not have missed the boat, good luck lots of baby dust

 

[Lyndsay!]

try not to give up

it is more than possible you have caught the right time, as someone already said the wee swimmers can last longer than we think!

good luck hun

 

[avistar]

agreed, if you bd'd before O time that is a good thing! So the spermies are in there right when the egg is released! BEST WISHES for you!!!!!

 

[loopylew]

Thanks girls , i'm not sure when i'm ovulating now cos i did my first opk today, a cheapie from Wilkos anhd it was negative so maybe i ovulated earlier than i thought, dunno, best option is to just BD a lot i still think lol

 

[miel]

i think you have a very good chance still...don't give up and bd a lot

 

[loopylew]

Yep we will keep on trying!!!

 

[babe2ooo]

well i didnt use opks so its all good you still could have bd the right day