Trying after Chemical Pregnancy

[hopemommy2015]

I suffered through a chemical pregnancy a few months ago and am still ttc. I was wondering if the symptoms of a healthy pregnancy will be the same as they were with my chemical pregnancy? My CP was my first and only pregnancy so I have no idea if I should be experiencing the same symptoms with a healthy pregnancy? Any insight is welcome and appreciated!

 

[Dill]

Every pregnancy is different, so it's hard to say! You could experience the same symptoms, or you might experience a totally separate set. Unless you have clear signs of a MC, I wouldn't stress about it.

 

[hopemommy2015]

Thanks so much for replying. I know you're right, I shouldn't stress but I want my baby so badly. Every month I symptom spot and pray like crazy and end up broken hearted every month. I really hope this is my month. Currently 8 dpo and trying to hold out to test. I have the same symptoms as I did with my chemical pregnancy, they just don't seem as strong as before.

 

[Dill]

I understand completely! After my MC and chemical, I feel the same urgency. Last month, I was totally convinced I was pregnant again... I had the WORST symptoms... and AF hit right on time after a series of negative hpts. So disappointing! Just hang in there. You'll be holding your rainbow baby in no time.

 

[hopemommy2015]

Thank to so much. I told myself I would wait to test but couldn't. Bfn. I know its early and I tried to stay neutral but I'm pretty disappointed. We've been trying since May and it seems like its happens so easily for everyone else. My friends and family are announcing left and right. I just have to keep trying and praying I guess. Thanks again for the support.

 

[hopemommy2015]

And I'm so sorry for your losses. Fingers crossed and baby dust for you. =)

 

[Dill]

My friends, too. Seems like everyone I know has gotten pregnant. One was even bragging about it happening "on the first try." Meanwhile, I'm congratulating her and trying not to cry because I keep losing mine.

Now, as for your BFN, it is supersupersuper early! You have at least 6 more days to get your BFP this cycle! Hang in there.

 

[hopemommy2015]

Thanks. I actually just got told that a man I know can "knock up his wife just by looking at her." but I smiled and congratulated them then went to my car and cried. =( I'm trying to remember that everything happens in time but its so hard. I'm sure we'll both get our bfp soon though. Fingers crossed.

 

[Dill]

 

[hopemommy2015]

Thanks. It's either my month or I have the stomach virus. I'm trying to not get excited!

 

[Dill]

Cautious optimism is my motto! Fingers are crossed TIGHT for you!

 

[Trying4first1]

Hey hopemommy2015

I too suffered a chemical pregnancy (Dec 2014). Me and DH are now on our third cycle trying since it happened. I am sure that it will happen with time, we just have to be patient (hard as it is some days). Some women are lucky and conceive very quickly afterwards, but for others it may just take that bit longer. Wishing you lots of and good luck!!

 

[hopemommy2015]

I got my BFP!!!!! I'm do excited! Praying like mad that it sticks!

 

[Dill]

Woohoo!!! Congrats!