Trying not to worry.....but failing miserably. Please talk to me

[kellze]

Good morning

I have had 2 miscarriages, one at Christmas and one in April both around 8 weeks. I am currently 9 weeks pregnant and saw healthy baby with heartbeat on a scan last Friday.

I had been having regular and intense nausea though no actual sickness and my boobs hurt like crazy.

My nausea has tailed off and the boobs don't hurt anywhere near as much. I am so scared and feel like such a whinger.

Plus....my pelvis has started to hurt like crazy, just like towards the end of a full term pregnancy where your bones seem to separate. Is this a bad sign??

 

[maryanne1987]

It's really normal for symptoms to die down towards the end of the first tri. Try not to worry!

 

[floridamomma]

It sounds normal. I know it's hard as I had 6 miscarriages from 4-8 weeks and am now almost 12 weeks and I find myself nervous a lot too.

 

[kellze]

Thank you ladies.

This morning I had a very slightly brown coloured mucus when I went to the loo. A midwife friend said it is probably the bleed the sonographer mentioned but I can't help but be worried.

I have to work today, in retail so on my feet all day, but plan on being really slow and not doing too much. Perks of being the manager lol.

Still trying not to panic but I wish there was a way that the Dr could tell me for sure that this one will be ok.

 

[EverythingXd]

It's so hard isn't it? I had 2 previous MCs too and I've done nothing but worry this pregnancy. I've lost symptoms at least 3 times where they have eased right up for a couple of days, and each time I've panicked. That is what happened with my MMC.

I got a Doppler yesterday and heard the HB last night so that has reassured me, but first trimester after a loss is one of the most worrying things.

If the sonographer mentioned seeing a bleed, the brown tinge is highly likely to be caused by that. As for the pelvic feeling, everything moves and stretches so much in first tri so you will get aches and odd feelings. I won't tell you not to worry because I know it's impossible but I hope the next few weeks go by quickly. Will you get any more scans?