pbl_ge
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Hi All,
Not sure if this thread is best started in this forum or in the TTC after a loss forum, but I'm going to try here and see how it goes.
Full disclosure: I'm not QUITE 35 yet. Turning 35 in exactly 18 days, though, and I've been reading the stats for those over 35 for months, anyway. Most forums, even the TTCAL one, are dominated by such young little things that I'd prefer to stay away. I don't think a loss is the same at age 35(ish) as it is when you're 25, anyway. (When I was crying in the doctor's office during my recent m/c, the NP told me, "Don't worry, you're so young! Time is on your side!" I told her my age, she looked shocked, and scurried away without providing further encouragement. Sigh.)
Anyway, I just got my first BFP (been TTC since May) in August, and then had an early miscarriage around 5+5. I started bleeding again today, which I think means it's CD1 of my first normal cycle, but we'll have to wait to find out. I'm trying to gear up for TTC again, although I'm petrified both of getting a BFP again, and of not getting another one. Would love to talk to some other ladies who are in the same boat.
Anyone?
Not sure if this thread is best started in this forum or in the TTC after a loss forum, but I'm going to try here and see how it goes.
Full disclosure: I'm not QUITE 35 yet. Turning 35 in exactly 18 days, though, and I've been reading the stats for those over 35 for months, anyway. Most forums, even the TTCAL one, are dominated by such young little things that I'd prefer to stay away. I don't think a loss is the same at age 35(ish) as it is when you're 25, anyway. (When I was crying in the doctor's office during my recent m/c, the NP told me, "Don't worry, you're so young! Time is on your side!" I told her my age, she looked shocked, and scurried away without providing further encouragement. Sigh.)
Anyway, I just got my first BFP (been TTC since May) in August, and then had an early miscarriage around 5+5. I started bleeding again today, which I think means it's CD1 of my first normal cycle, but we'll have to wait to find out. I'm trying to gear up for TTC again, although I'm petrified both of getting a BFP again, and of not getting another one. Would love to talk to some other ladies who are in the same boat.
Anyone?