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TTC after 2 m/c

wnabeamom

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I have had two previous m/c and my boyfriend and I are TTC. With the first PG, I was 19 and had no idea I was PG until I had my period (which has always been irregular). My periods have always been heavy and really bad cramping so this time wasn't any different. I found out I had m/c after confirming with my dr. When I was 23, I then too had no idea I was PG. My fiancee told me he had a dream that I was PG. We had been trying for several months. We went out to eat one night and that's when he told me after seeing that I was eating more than usual. I totally blew off the idea and thought he was just crazy. LOL,

As I set at the table while he went to pay the check, I started thinking about how I had been feeling lately. Extremely tired, BB were sore, frequent urination, hungry, etc. At that moment, I was like oh my gosh.... he may be right. So I took a PGT to see and it came out positive. In total disbelief, I took several more. I went to a local PG center and had it confirmed that I was 6 weeks PG. I made a dr appointment immediately. A week before my appointment I had some bleeding, was a little concerned and noticed that I wasn't as tired as I used to be, urination was as frequent, BB weren't sore, etc. A friend told me not to worry but to tell my dr. When I went to my drs appt, they took blood and ran test as usual. They had me come back the next day for an ultrasound. The ultrasound tech did her thing and as we were looking at the screen, she looked confused. She left the room and came back to tell me that I had m/c.

The first time I found out I had been pregnant, I was sad but relieved because I was only 19 and wasn't ready for a child. The second time, I was excited but worried about what my family would think and had a lot of stress.

Last Sunday, I got up, went to the bathroom and noticed some spotting. IMMEDIATELY, I gasped, and said "I am pregnant!" I just had an intuition about it. I have never had an intuition that has been wrong and never had an intuition about being pregnant. lol My spotting only lasted a few days and I have just been feeling different. I am not really sure how to explain it except by saying that I feel like changes are being made inside my body. I have been more tired than usual and feeling a little bloated. The last two nights I have been up with heart burn and have only had it once in my life before now. I know I haven't eaten anything that would regularly cause heartburn. I have cats and am used to feeding them wet cat food, but the other day I opened a can and had it no where near my face but about threw up. I have noticed that my sense of smell has heightened. No morning sickness but have been feeling nauseated off and on and especially when I first wake up. 10 minutes after I eat, my stomach starts burning like I haven't. I feel like this may all be in my head and will be taking a test in the next day or two but I wanted to get some feed back from some other people on my experience. I have tired to stay really positive and pray about this because I really want to be a mom more than anything I have ever wanted. I have googled and had some doubts like on how disappointed I will be if I am not. I have had times where I thought I was and had more doubts than anything. This time feels different. I feel like I am more sure that I am than anything else.

Please give me some feed back on what you think. would love to hear your thoughts and stories.
 
I'm so sorry for your losses. :-( you didn't say how long ago your second miscarriage was. If it was recent, I just want to warn you that residual hormones can make you feel pregnant, even if you're not. I was CONVINCED I was pregnant before my first period after my loss. I was on cloud nine and told my husband I just KNEW we were pregnant again. And unfortunately I was wrong. Our bodies are amazing, but they can mess with us sometimes. I hope you are pregnant again, but I just wanted to caution you against getting too excited until there's a positive test. I went through a lot of months of disappointment because I let myself get too excited before a BFP and I just hate seeing other women go through the same thing. Good luck in the next couple of days!! I'll be crossing my fingers!!
 
Sorry. First miscarriage was in 2005 and second was in 2009. I havent taken a test yet as it has only been a few weeks and I wanted to wait atleast until when I think I will be 6 weeks. 2nd pregnancy, 6 weeks was the first time I got a faint line and then all the test after that were coming up positive. So thats why I am going to wait. I havent really had any symptoms in the last week or so except being tired and sense of smell. I am trying not to be negative about the situatuion as we all know that will get us no where. I have my doubts but I am trying to stay positive.
 

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