TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[poppy666]

lilrojo make sure you get plenty of stock in there over weekend and legs in the air i did that pmsl

 

[caleblake]

ah pops hope at your scan they put your due date ahead a few days, then at least your due date qwould be 11/11/11 xxx

 

[poppy666]

Good point... thats when i even dare go to the doctors are you taking asprin? x

 

[Suze]

I was thinking about the November due dates too, poppy if you go 2 weeks early it could be 1/11/11 which is still good!
I was thinking the same for me too as my due date by LMP us 3/11/11.

I'm taking 5mg folic acid but no aspirin until 12 weeks

 

[puppycat]

Well girlies I had a bit of bad news yesterday - the tabs Dr put me on (which were supposed to be the safest thing for pregnancy) haven't worked for me so they've added another on top of those. I had hoped to be tablet free by Summer but it doesn't look hopeful.

I'm not sure it would be the best time atm to TTC given that the tablets could affect baby in first and third tri so it'd just be selfish and reckless of me to TTC atm.

 

[poppy666]

1/11/11 is good too Suze lol as long as its not 31st Oct 'halloween'

Puppycat you must be gutted sweetie

 

[pip7890]

Puppycat

Is the doctor sure that there are no other options? How much has the miscarriage and subsequent attempts to TTC contributed to the new tablets not kicking in for you? I just wonder whether it's a bit chicken and egg. Is it possible to give it another month and then switch tablets?

Don't rush into making any decisions about TTC or meds. Talk it through with OH and explore all your options. Docs can be quick to prescribe but, speaking from my own experience, that's not always the answer.

Pip x

 

[puppycat]

Well I didn't see my usual Dr yesterday, she's on leave until April (and I couldn't wait that long) so she might prescribe something different when I see her next but for the moment at least I'm on these new tablets.

I have the number of Cognitive Behavioural (sp?) Therapist from work but when I went to the health review yesterday she said it's best to go through my Dr not work as they can be biased?

I don't know.

Yesterday answering all the questions they had made me realise that I actually am quite a rubbish mother, I don't take Laura out for 'fresh air' and I'm always nagging at my husband. Probably best not to have a new baby when I can't even look after myself atm eh. x

 

[poppy666]

Puppycat please dont ever say your not a good mother, i dont go out that much and im always ranting at my OH but that dont make me a bad mother... your just having a crap time atm so sending you some massive

 

[puppycat]

Thanks Poppy, I'm just paranoid that people will assume I can't cope because of my depression when in truth I think the only one who judges me is me. Silly.

Thanks for the hugs x

 

[poppy666]

Thousand suffer from depression 'me included', got a few lovely ladies on my thread who in fact suffer yrs of depression and are on medication for it whilst they're pregnant x

 

[puppycat]

Really? That's intriguing. Which thread is that? I'd be interested to find out what they're on, God knows my Dr needs a hint with my medication!

That's actually cheered me up immensely xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[poppy666]

Yeah course not a lot online atm but they'll be back on later or deffo tomorrow sweetie https://www.babyandbump.com/ttc-groups/419752-team-ding-dong-bonking-into-new-year.html

 

[lilrojo]

Hey lovely ladies.. hope your all doing well.. and Puppy I dont take my daughter out for "fresh air" either.. lol.. thats a crazy thing to base whether your a good mother or not on.. If thats what its based on then Im not either, lol... Plus its freezing here..brrr to cold to be out and about.. I bet your a wonderful mother... your avatar pics always show you love your lil girl sooo much...

Poppy-hope your doing well.. and I plan to get plenty stock up there waiting for miss eggy!!

 

[poppy666]

Good cos i'll be checking on you tomorrow to make sure you do get the goods

Im doing fine trying not to think too much cos it gets me paranoid, ie every af cramp or twinge im getting edgy anyways its my birthday tomorrow and im out all day so will take my mind off everything hopefully xxx

 

[lilrojo]

Planning to stock up tonight lol!!

Happy Birthday, a day early!!

Im sure many of us will feel the same way.. with the paranoid thing.. I know I will.. but try not to let it..hope you can have fun tomorrow and get your mind off of things.. thats what Im trying to do now.. not stress too much about it all..

 

[puppycat]

Thanks lilrojo - that was one of the questions the woman asked in my health review but the way she said it made me feel awful. She phrased it like "you don't even take your daughter out for fresh air...?" like it was something I should be doing on a daily basis and then she looked at me like I was crazy or something.

I don't know what to think any more, my Nan keeps going on at me about Laura too, telling me that pasta and fruit aren't a solid diet for my daughter and I should be giving her mashed potatoes etc, everything else she just throws on the floor or plays with. I do try her with everything, we even went out to a chinese all you can eat buffet today so I could try her on all the different dishes there - I may worry a little too much!

Everyone seems to have an opinion on how you raise your child don't they!!

 

[puppycat]

Happy birthday for tomorrow Poppy, how lovely to have a birthday with a little bean in your belly! x

 

[poppy666]

Ahhh im sure laura will eat other things when she's ready... as long as she eats something thats all that matters

Thanks for birthday wishes Eeeek im 41 tomorrow 'scary' but i dont feel it especially with korben

 

[caleblake]

awh happy birthday for tomorrow pops

Puppycat thats a terrible thing to say, Im sure you are a fantastic mother Love is much more important than fresh air

hey liljoro xxx