TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[HayleyJJ]

I'm on Citalopram (anti depressants) had a particularly bad episode in work which made of extremely stressed which then led to depression. Been signed off since June 2010. Not nice.
Apparently they can cause heart defects to baby if taken in early pregnancy so i'm not prepared to risk it x

i just started them again as feel im really low

3 days in im shatttered always yawning xx side effects omg i didnt know it can harm baby do u get side effects?

I went to my Dr on Xmas Eve who told me then about the problems. She said early and late pregnancy it was especially bad. Heart defects and a drug dependancy. Best speak to your Dr hun as there are other AD tabs you can take which are better for baby.
How are you feeling? I couldn't believe how angry I was when I stopped taking them, I broke my phone throwing it across the room! Oops!

im not sure if you know but there used for anger issues as well hun!!

my mate isnt depressed but she was on them for anger issues x

have you had any side effects when you first started taking them?

 

[HayleyJJ]

A quick hi and bye ladies. I'm off on my hols in the morning so won't be posting again until on or after Thursday 27 January. How will I cope without you?

Seriously, I hope you all stay happy and healthy. I look forward to seeing a few more s on the first post when Hayley updates it (hint hint re Joey!!!).

Sorry that some of you ladies are having a tough time. I had a nervous breakdown in 1994 and took anti-depressants for a number of years. I wouldn't say I'm fixed but I definitely have better coping strategies now. Always available to talk privately if it helps.

Afm (as for me), well when I wiped (TMI alert) tonight I almost lost my hand in all the slime - it was like Ghostbusters!!! - yuck - do you think I'm ovulating? If today is CD 16 does that mean I'm going to have a 30 day cycle? It's all new to me!!!

Take care of yourselves and each other. Be grateful for what you have, but aim high for what you want. You deserve it.

Lots of

Pip x

have a fab time and very wise words love ya xxx

 

[HayleyJJ]

this is murphy my mad 13 week old german shep puppy

no wees or poops in house for nearly 24 hrs he loves the treats for going outside to much hehe x

hope your all ok im quite low today tbh buy never mind i will live xx

 

[poppy666]

Awww too cute Hayley they gorgeous dogs, ive got one called Diesel he's a softy x

 

[puppycat]

I knew they were used for anxiety but not anger, didn't have a problem until I had to go cold turkey!

Well my laptop is playing up today so I am going to have to buy a new one. Luckily mum works in a PC shop so I know I'm not being fobbed off and it's time to move on

 

[laura_2010]

Awww Scrummy pup!!! Bless I see alot of them I show my Shiba inu That Him the Ginger one! hehe

 

[puppycat]

clicky

Just for your reading pleasure ladies so you can see what I'm up to!

 

[HayleyJJ]

wowwww did it close in the end puppycat?

he is a cuties isnt he bless him im training him and doing very well so far x

 

[missmayhem]

heya gonna join you ladies....

cute puppys mine had the "snip" yesterday and is feeling sorry for himself

 

[puppycat]

Well they have been given the go ahead to close it but we're still fighting it!
Got my new laptop, more of a notebook really, it's so small and cute.
So now I have two laptops, one I can't use because the power won't hold and the other's updating and charging. Lol. Patience is a virtue.....

 

[HayleyJJ]

heya gonna join you ladies....

cute puppys mine had the "snip" yesterday and is feeling sorry for himself

welcome babes xx

oh poor puppy will get mine done when hes 6 months old i think x

 

[puppycat]

Wooooo my new laptop is up and running!

How are we all ladies?

 

[laura_2010]

Im good hows u?.... What you think to this??... Ok well I gotta pos opk yesterday at 10am did the deed at 2ish and today opk as well as sat and sun... opk today was fainter does that mean iv oulated?? Im gettin a few cramps and boobs r itching!!!

 

[poppy666]

Stressed LO teething soooooooooooo 7pm cant come any sooner

As for my bleeding it stopped last night only to start again this morning, but changed from bright red to a yucky coloured brown but spotting x

 

[puppycat]

Im good hows u?.... What you think to this??... Ok well I gotta pos opk yesterday at 10am did the deed at 2ish and today opk as well as sat and sun... opk today was fainter does that mean iv oulated?? Im gettin a few cramps and boobs r itching!!!

Well it seems your surge is over so i *think* that means you have, or should have, ovulated.

The other girls are more up on OPK's that I am though

 

[laura_2010]

Would you get a pos even if you dnt ovulate?

 

[poppy666]

Yes you would get a positive if you ov or not, only way to know if you ov is charting sweetie xx

 

[puppycat]

It is possible to have a surge and not ovulate but I don't think it happens often x

 

[emilyrose.x]

Hi ladies, Pip enjoy your holiday babes, hope everyone ok.
Right need to ask you ladies a question.
You know how it helps for men to take Zinc, Vitamin C tablets? well i know it makes thier sperm 'better' but does it also reduce chance of a MC?
Really fecking angry at OH right now.
was worrying yesterday about scan tomorrow and i said to OH before bed, babes u guna start taking them vitamin tablets for your spermys? and he said id rather do it naturally and then just bought it up again now and he said 'i wana do it naturally babe, like let it happen' so i said 'ye me to but makes ya sperm stronger and baby got more chance of being ok' he said 'does it defo stop you from having a MC?' and i said 'no i dont think, but im guessing it helps' WTF?? so then said about how he dunt wana take 5 tablets a day every morning bla bla bla and i was like WTF dumbass, its 1 effing tablet!! and he was like "oo yea il take it then " im just like "eff off, dont bother its fine knoob! I usually wunt be that bothered but he been working at his new job for last month at the most contaminated site in Europe!!! yea he wears a suit and mask but unhealthy work conditions effect ya sperm so really pissed right now i dont wana go through another MC!! Arggggg!!!

RANT OVER.

 

[poppy666]

Just seen this Emz im not sure if it will prevent a MC tbh, but ive got my OH on the zinc this week too im thinking of taking baby asprin i figure it wont hurt, but not sure if to take all through my cycle or just after ovulation x