TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[puppycat]

I DTD with DH on Saturday night which kick started my m/c bleed. I was worried about the infection thing but I feel ok and I figure it'd have taken hold by now

So Bellasmummy I say use a condom or something if you want to DTD, just in case. If you're worried about it you won't enjoy it anyway hun x

 

[emilyrose.x]

BellasMummy - just thought you should know i rang hospital earlier asking if i could have sex once my bleeding has stopped as i had my MC on 18/12/2010 and im now having brown/red discharge instead of blood but hospital told me not to have sex, even if i stop bleeding because even if you have stopped there can be blood there still thats not coming out as quick as it should and can cause bleeding again as cervix is very sensitive and possible infection - crap i know but just thought i should tell you. Do whats best for you though hun

Em x

 

[Becci_Boo86]

I'm here hun!! i found it

just got in from bowling and playing pool how popular am i lol

I'm with u all for sure!!

I'm Becci 24 from Herefordshire

I had my first loss in July 2009 i went for my 12 weeks scan and bub has passed away at 8+4 weeks. then we had another in October 09 at 6 weeks natural and then another on 12th July 2010 at 6 weeks aswell.

i'm now under help with my FS which has helped me now know i will have my 2011 BFP for sure

i have even done my nursery and got everything ready

Roll on all of our 2011 BFPS xxxx

 

[emilyrose.x]

I DTD with DH on Saturday night which kick started my m/c bleed. I was worried about the infection thing but I feel ok and I figure it'd have taken hold by now

So Bellasmummy I say use a condom or something if you want to DTD, just in case. If you're worried about it you won't enjoy it anyway hun x

So my post did come through ... EVENTUALLY!!

Agree with puppycat - use a condom if you do

Em x

 

[pip7890]

omg ladies just done my tarot and got this card x

Like a mother, this card represents fertility and gentle authority... suggests that we should follow our natural instincts and gut feelings.... often reveals itself at the time of new beginnings such as... birth of a child, and new undertakings.

I'd like to thing this means that your positive mental attitude toward conceiving a healthy baby will bring you what you most desire. You are young, healthy and fertile and determined to succeed.

That's just my reading of the words. I've never done tarot cards, but I do believe in fate.

Pip x

 

[pip7890]

I'm here hun!! i found it

just got in from bowling and playing pool how popular am i lol

I'm with u all for sure!!

I'm Becci 24 from Herefordshire

I had my first loss in July 2009 i went for my 12 weeks scan and bub has passed away at 8+4 weeks. then we had another in October 09 at 6 weeks natural and then another on 12th July 2010 at 6 weeks aswell.

i'm now under help with my FS which has helped me now know i will have my 2011 BFP for sure

i have even done my nursery and got everything ready

Roll on all of our 2011 BFPS xxxx

Hello Becci

Welcome to our thread. Fingers crossed for a 2011 for you.



Pip x

 

[HayleyJJ]

I'm here hun!! i found it

just got in from bowling and playing pool how popular am i lol

I'm with u all for sure!!

I'm Becci 24 from Herefordshire

I had my first loss in July 2009 i went for my 12 weeks scan and bub has passed away at 8+4 weeks. then we had another in October 09 at 6 weeks natural and then another on 12th July 2010 at 6 weeks aswell.

i'm now under help with my FS which has helped me now know i will have my 2011 BFP for sure

i have even done my nursery and got everything ready

Roll on all of our 2011 BFPS xxxx

welcome my friend and oldest bnb friend and bb mess friend (anyone else got a bb?)

welcome becciboo love you lots and jan is ur month for answers x


so gld you made it to our group

 

[pip7890]

BellasMummy - just thought you should know i rang hospital earlier asking if i could have sex once my bleeding has stopped as i had my MC on 18/12/2010 and im now having brown/red discharge instead of blood but hospital told me not to have sex, even if i stop bleeding because even if you have stopped there can be blood there still thats not coming out as quick as it should and can cause bleeding again as cervix is very sensitive and possible infection - crap i know but just thought i should tell you. Do whats best for you though hun

Em x

Interesting post Em. Since there'll be no here tonight I think I'll ask that question tomorrow at the hospital.

Is there anything else I should ask?

Pip x

 

[HayleyJJ]

BellasMummy - just thought you should know i rang hospital earlier asking if i could have sex once my bleeding has stopped as i had my MC on 18/12/2010 and im now having brown/red discharge instead of blood but hospital told me not to have sex, even if i stop bleeding because even if you have stopped there can be blood there still thats not coming out as quick as it should and can cause bleeding again as cervix is very sensitive and possible infection - crap i know but just thought i should tell you. Do whats best for you though hun

Em x

wonder why they said that im worried now as im not bleeding and havent for days got bfn sunday so why should i not bed ?? arghhhhh im stressing now worried i may get an infection x

 

[puppycat]

BellasMummy - just thought you should know i rang hospital earlier asking if i could have sex once my bleeding has stopped as i had my MC on 18/12/2010 and im now having brown/red discharge instead of blood but hospital told me not to have sex, even if i stop bleeding because even if you have stopped there can be blood there still thats not coming out as quick as it should and can cause bleeding again as cervix is very sensitive and possible infection - crap i know but just thought i should tell you. Do whats best for you though hun

Em x

wonder why they said that im worried now as im not bleeding and havent for days got bfn sunday so why should i not bed ?? arghhhhh im stressing now worried i may get an infection x

When did you last DTD?

 

[Becci_Boo86]

Its a brilliant group

i going to go right bk 2 page one and ready everyones comment then i know all about you all

Yea if any of u have Blackberry chat PM us would love to be able 2 chat u all!! wouldnt we Hayley since we are on there all the time xx

 

[HayleyJJ]

yes becci we r

 

[pip7890]

BellasMummy - just thought you should know i rang hospital earlier asking if i could have sex once my bleeding has stopped as i had my MC on 18/12/2010 and im now having brown/red discharge instead of blood but hospital told me not to have sex, even if i stop bleeding because even if you have stopped there can be blood there still thats not coming out as quick as it should and can cause bleeding again as cervix is very sensitive and possible infection - crap i know but just thought i should tell you. Do whats best for you though hun

Em x

wonder why they said that im worried now as im not bleeding and havent for days got bfn sunday so why should i not bed ?? arghhhhh im stressing now worried i may get an infection x

Hayley I don't think you've got anything to worry about. You're not in serious pain, there's no smelly discharge and you haven't got a fever. If you're worried check with EPAU in the morning. Relax - or else!!!!

Pip x

 

[puppycat]

I couldn't possibly operate a blackberry - I can just about manage with the phone I have!!

 

[emilyrose.x]

Pip - Rang hospital up about the sex because its been over 2 weeks and i have a very high sex drive so to put it blunt i have been gagging for it, was planning on doing the dirty tonight as it is more a red discharge i have now than blood, so was planning on puttin a towel down (yes, i am also Capricorn ) and thought it would be fine, my OH wanted me to ring hospital to be sure so got transfered through to one of the gyno nurses who advised me to wait till i have my confirmation scan as my cervix is very sensitive atm and even if i have completely stopped bleeding there may be more but it has not travelled out as quick as it should have and that this may lead to further bleeding - she said better to be sure and prevent infection and i asked about using a condom if this would prevent infection? and she said that even a tampon can cause infection and best to wait till i am sure that everything has gone before i , in her words, "put things up there".

Hayley - dont worry, im sure everything is fine hun.. The gyno nurse may have just said it because its a routine thing to say? or for precaution, it doesnt mean you will get a infection almost certain, just so that you are aware of the risks i think..

x

 

[pip7890]

It's a really friendly group Becci. It's only been going 24 hours but very popular already.

Pip x

 

[HayleyJJ]

I couldn't possibly operate a blackberry - I can just about manage with the phone I have!!

hehe that made me laugh babes xx
i just done the now going to fly my but the trouble is i need to

oh just me was lovely and i just got a pressie off a

sorry ladies had to be done hehe xx

 

[BellasMummy]

Hey ladies!

Well I just before I read any of your posts!!

I feel fine no pain, but now a bit worried!

xx

 

[pip7890]

Hayley!!!! Move away from the smilies

Pip x

 

[pip7890]

You ladies who are tonight should be laid with your legs in the air and your hands under your bum! How the heck are you managing to hold a laptop at the same time?!!!

Pip x