TTC after MC info... please add your details!

[Lamburai1703]

Hi ladies,

I have now had two MC's and regularly see people in a similar spot asking the same questions such as "how soon does AF return?", "how long does it take to conceive after?" etc.

I am no IT whizz kid, but I wanted to try and start a thread collating this info for people to hopefully answer some of these questions. If you all want to answer this (which I will bump every day for a while until I have a list to start). I'll do it as some sort of excel sheet too and see if I can work out how to attach that?

Cut an paste below into a reply. I'll start immediately after this!

Info required is:
Name:
Date of miscarriage:
MC stage:
Treatment (natural/d&c etc):
How many days till ov:
How many days till AF:
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP:

Good luck to all!

 

[Lamburai1703]

Name: Lamburai1703
Date of miscarriage: 5th Sept 2009
MC stage: 7w1d
Treatment (natural/d&c etc): Natural
How many days till ov: 24
How many days till AF: n/a
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP: 0!

Name: Lamburai1703
Date of miscarriage: 2nd November 2009
MC stage: 6w6d
Treatment (natural/d&c etc): natural
How many days till ov: ?
How many days till AF: ?
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP:

 

[beachlover1]

Name:Beachlover1
Date of miscarriage: 19th Aug 09
MC stage:7+5
Treatment (natural/d&c etc):d&C @ 10 weeks
How many days till ov:13
How many days till AF:28
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP 1

Name: Beachlover1
Date of miscarriage:17 Oct 09
MC stage:4+5
Treatment (natural/d&c etc): natural chemical pg
How many days till ov:21
How many days till AF: TBA
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP

Hope that helps xx

 

[Hopeful 4 #1]

Name:Hopeful 4#1
Date of miscarriage:29th October
MC stage:5 weeks
Treatment (natural/d&c etc):Natural
How many days till ov: Will let you know
How many days till AF: Will let you know
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP: ...tbc!

 

[falcon]

Name:Falcon
Date of miscarriage:12th july 09
MC stage:5wks 6days
Treatment (natural/d&c etc):natural
How many days till ov:15
How many days till AF:31
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP:3 and still trying

hope it helps, ive only had i m/c and dont want any more!

still trying, so bfp yet

 

[Lady_J]

Name: Lady_J
Date of miscarriage: 20th March 2000
MC stage: 16 weeks but the baby had stopped growing at 14 weeks
Treatment (natural/d&c etc): d&c
How many days till ov: I cant remember it was when i was 14
How many days till AF:I cant remember it was when i was 14
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP: unknown.

Name:Lady_J
Date of miscarriage:24th December 2007
MC stage:13 weeks
Treatment (natural/d&c etc): !! TMI !! Started off as a natural but then i got rushed into hosp and baby had to be removed by the doctor by hand whilst i was wide awake.
How many days till ov: Im not sure
How many days till AF: Exactly 4 weeks.
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP: Only just started trying again since May so that would be 6 cycles so far.

 

[fernie3]

Name:fernie3
Date of miscarriage:2003
MC stage:9 or 10 weeks wasnt trying and didnt know i was pregnant until a week or two before loss.
Treatment (natural/d&c etc):natural
How many days till ov: dont know wasnt charting etc
How many days till AF: around 5 weeks (again wasnt ttc so wasnt paying much attention)
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP:didnt TTc for 1 year after

Name:fernie3
Date of miscarriage:2005
MC stage:5 weeks
Treatment (natural/d&c etc):natural
How many days till ov:23
How many days till AF:35
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP:12

Name:
Date of miscarriage:2006
MC stage:5 weeks
Treatment (natural/d&c etc):natural
How many days till ov:dont know
How many days till AF:had another bfp next cycle - see below (another early loss)
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP:


Name:fernie3
Date of miscarriage:2006
MC stage:6 weeks
Treatment (natural/d&c etc):natural
How many days till ov:13
How many days till AF:was pg next cycle!
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP:next cycle was bfp (for my son)

 

[misskat29]

Name: misskat29
Date of miscarriage: 12th October 2009
MC stage: 13 wks - although baby had not grown past 6wks
Treatment (natural/d&c etc): natural
How many days till ov: think i currently am?
How many days till AF: still waiting for her to visit @ 3wks after mc
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP: TBC

 

[hibiscus07]

Name: Hibiscus07
Date of miscarriage: 04/18/2009
MC stage: 7 weeks
Treatment (natural/d&c etc): Natural
How many days till ov: 25
How many days till AF: 39
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP: 1

Name: Hibiscus07
Date of miscarriage: 08/31/2009
MC stage: 7 weeks
Treatment (natural/d&c etc): Natural
How many days till ov: 33
How many days till AF: 47
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP: 1 (so far--no BFP yet)

 

[LunaBean]

Name: Lizzie
Date of miscarriage: 2nd October 2009
MC stage: 4weeks 2 days
Treatment (natural/d&c etc): natural
How many days till ov: 20
How many days till AF: 32
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP: TBC

 

[Guppy051708]

Name: Guppy051708
Date of miscarriage: October 17th, 2009
MC stage: Miscarried at 8W & 3D, baby stopped growing at 6W & 3D
Treatment (natural/d&c etc): Natural
How many days till ov: CD 19 (normal for me)
How many days till AF: TBA (will update you)
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP: 0 but will start trying after AF; TBA

 

[Virginia]

Name: Virginia
Date of miscarriage: 2NOV09
MC stage: 5 weeks, 3 days
Treatment (natural/d&c etc): Natural
How many days till ov: 25 days
How many days till AF: 36 days
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP: I think 6. They were not normal cycles, and they were extra long at first. I had to take BC pills one month to get my cycle to go back to the normal 28 day cycle I've always had, so technically one month shouldn't count.

 

[Lamburai1703]

Thanks ladies, and so sorry for all of our losses. Life can be so unkind.

I'll crack on with the list so at least we can all keep track of what the "average" is and maybe offer support to some others.

Sticky dust to all!!

 

[michkotte]

Name: Michkotte
Date of miscarriage: 3rd of October
MC stage: 8 weeks and 5 days (baby stopped growing at 5 weeks)
Treatment (natural/d&c etc): natural
How many days till ov: don't think I ovulate!
How many days till AF: 32
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP: we are just TTC now that AF showed up!

 

[Jessa]

Name: JESSA
Date of miscarriage: AUGUST 12, 2008
MC stage: 7w1d
Treatment (natural/d&c etc): Natural
How many days till ov: Not sure -- didn't temp back then....
How many days till AF: 28
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP: 1 cycle

Name: JESSA
Date of miscarriage: FEBRUARY 9, 2009
MC stage: 17w1d, but baby had died at about 14 weeks
Treatment (natural/d&c etc): Natural AND D&C (that sucked!)
How many days till ov: Not sure -- didn't temp back then....
How many days till AF: 30
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP: 6

Name: JESSA
Date of miscarriage: SEPTEMBER 13, 2009
MC stage: 4w4d
Treatment (natural/d&c etc): Natural
How many days till ov: Not sure -- took the month following off and didn't may attention
How many days till AF: 30
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP: Still trying....hopefully 5!

 

[kaite103]

Name:kaite
Date of miscarriage:april 17th 09
MC stage:7w3d
Treatment (natural/d&c etc):natural
How many days till ov:10
How many days till AF:23
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP:
this is the begining of cycle 4

 

[Lamburai1703]

Thanks again ladies, and sorry for your losses. I have begun to compile a list as a spreadsheet but don't seem to be able to attach it. Anyone with some IT knowledge would be helpful?!

 

[tabbicles]

Name:Sally
Date of miscarriage: 3rd September 2009
MC stage:12 weeks excatly but baby died at 7 weeks 4 days
Treatment (natural/d&c etc):Natural
How many days till ov:not sure but according to smiley face about 15 days
How many days till AF:6 weeks erm....42 days
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP:not got there yet!! (hope it will be my first though!)

 

[MrsRoughton]

Name:Claire
Date of miscarriage: started 29th October 2009
MC stage: around 5-6 weeks
Treatment (natural/d&c etc):Natural
How many days till ov:not sure
How many days till AF: not had it yet
How many cycles (trying) until next BFP:not got there yet!! (hope it will be my first though!)

 

[Lamburai1703]

Thanks Claire and Sally and sorry to hear.

Just to clarify - i have counted the date of miscarriage as the physical date it happened rather than when the sac/fetus stopped developing. If people have put just weeks and not days I have put just the weeks, but if they've put between 5 and 6 weeks, I have gone for somewhere in the middle! The average so far for AF to show her ugly witchy face is 32.7 days.

Anyone any ideas of how to attach the chart??