Ttc after miscarriage in oct now in two week wait again

[ttcbean2]

Hey lovelies
I'm new here so bare with me

As title suggests I am ttc and have been since miscarriage in oct anyway we have really gone for it this month sorry if tmi and I am now officially in the dreaded tww

Anyone else in similar time frame ?

Sarah xxx

 

[comotion89]

Good luck, sadly no af for me as yet sine mc in dec so still (im)patiently waiting.

 

[Dill]

I'm so sorry for your loss! I'm dealing with something similar right now. I had a MC in August, and a follow-up D&C for a retained BO in September. Got pregnant again in December, lost it early this month. Like you, we really went for it as soon as I knew I ovulated, and now we're in the TWW!

Fingers are crossed that you get your BFP this cycle! Good luck!!!

 

[ttcbean2]

Good luck, sadly no af for me as yet sine mc in dec so still (im)patiently waiting.

Hi comotion u can appreciate your frustration waiting for the first proper af after miscarriage so infuriating fingers crossed for af for you soon so u can get back to ttc xxx

 

[ttcbean2]

I'm so sorry for your loss! I'm dealing with something similar right now. I had a MC in August, and a follow-up D&C for a retained BO in September. Got pregnant again in December, lost it early this month. Like you, we really went for it as soon as I knew I ovulated, and now we're in the TWW!

Fingers are crossed that you get your BFP this cycle! Good luck!!!

Hi Dill thank you for your reply 😊 so sorry to hear of your losses xx how far in to tww are u ? We can see this through together praying for us and spreading baby dust 😊😊😊 xx

 

[Fleur828815]

I had a missed miscarriage and ERPC in October, waited till December to TTC but didn't ovulate. This month was my first cycle properly TTCing but it didn't work.

Good luck to all of you, hope it won't be long till you get your sticky BFP.

 

[ttcbean2]

I had a missed miscarriage and ERPC in October, waited till December to TTC but didn't ovulate. This month was my first cycle properly TTCing but it didn't work.

Good luck to all of you, hope it won't be long till you get your sticky BFP.

Hi Fleur sorry to hear of such a rough time and here's keeping fingers crossed next month is more successful for u

 

[ttcbean2]

I just can't stand the waiting wish there was a light that went green somewhere on our body just so we knew lol

 

[Fleur828815]

Thanks ttcbean. I also hate waiting! Waiting to TTC, then waiting to ovulate, then 2WW, waiting for AF... it never ends!
This was supposed to be our first child, now I ask myself if I'll actually ever have a baby. I was really lucky to fall pregnant within a couple of months that time, so the pessimist in me wonders if I've used up my chances.
If someone could tell me "OK, you'll be pregnant in 3/6/9 months", at least I could stop obsessing every month and building my hopes up!

 

[ttcbean2]

I know Fleur exactly what you mean it's the uncertainty just a hey yep it will happen and I would relax too . My partners just as bad this month do u feel pregnant ? How's it all feeling ? Lol I don't know !!! Plus pregnancy tests are in offer at mo at boots so he's like right stock up but I know I will only poas early and be frustrated !! So where abouts at u in cycle u on af at mo ?

 

[Fleur828815]

Aww that's so cute! My DH is just the opposite, he's very laid back and tells me to stop obsessing, it will happen and who cares if it takes a while

I'm only CD 5 so not even near ovulation, just waiting.

 

[ttcbean2]

Argh does he not realise the torture it is all the waiting throughout our cycle ! It's so frustrating ! And over analysing everything ? Am I crazy ?!

 

[Fleur828815]

If you're crazy then I am too He doesn't see the point in stressing about it since it's totally out of our hands. Argh.

 

[ttcbean2]

I get his point but it's no where near that easy ! It will prob happen when we are least expecting !

 

[Dill]

Hi Dill thank you for your reply 😊 so sorry to hear of your losses xx how far in to tww are u ? We can see this through together praying for us and spreading baby dust 😊😊😊 xx

I'm 9dpo and the agony of not knowing for sure is killing me.

Lots of baby dust to you!!!

 

[ttcbean2]

Hi Dill thank you for your reply 😊 so sorry to hear of your losses xx how far in to tww are u ? We can see this through together praying for us and spreading baby dust 😊😊😊 xx

I'm 9dpo and the agony of not knowing for sure is killing me.

Lots of baby dust to you!!!

Oh dill I have every thing crossed for u will u let me know when u poas ? Baby dust to you 😊😊

 

[Fleur828815]

I get his point but it's no where near that easy ! It will prob happen when we are least expecting !

So what does that mean if I expect it every month

Dill, good luck to you!

 

[ttcbean2]

I get his point but it's no where near that easy ! It will prob happen when we are least expecting !

So what does that mean if I expect it every month

Dill, good luck to you!

Hehe well we are both doing the same so who knows 😂
It's so distracting this tww it's all I can think about and I'm not sleeping well at mo really vivid nightmares - put me in a padded cell and straight jacket it'll be simpler for everyone ! Lol

 

[Fleur828815]

I keep saying I wish I could just go to sleep for however many months it will take, and wait up pregnant. Fingers crossed you'll get your BFP this month so you don't need the padded cell etc!

 

[ttcbean2]

Yeh that would be great! My friend is moaning she's sick etc and fed up being pregnant and I'm over here like bring it on id happily be all those things to have a baby growing in me ! Well will keep u posted nearer testing time !