Ttc after miscarriage in oct now in two week wait again

[wearsunlight]

I just can't stand the waiting wish there was a light that went green somewhere on our body just so we knew lol

Oh my gosh, that is so true! I find myself thinking I have all of these pregnancy symptoms just because I'm looking for a "sign." Wouldn't it be great if we could just know from the moment of conception???

 

[Spudtastic]

Hi ttcbean - sorry I should have been clearer. I wish wish wish I had a genuine bfp but I'm just waiting for my hcg levels to drop back to normal after my erpc on 22nd jan. Once I get a bfn I'm hoping to get af then ttc. But because I'm such a poas addict even a bfn is exciting lol.

 

[ttcbean2]

I just can't stand the waiting wish there was a light that went green somewhere on our body just so we knew lol

Oh my gosh, that is so true! I find myself thinking I have all of these pregnancy symptoms just because I'm looking for a "sign." Wouldn't it be great if we could just know from the moment of conception???

Would be amazing lol - I'm now 10dpo stupidly poas today and of course bfn

 

[ttcbean2]

Hi ttcbean - sorry I should have been clearer. I wish wish wish I had a genuine bfp but I'm just waiting for my hcg levels to drop back to normal after my erpc on 22nd jan. Once I get a bfn I'm hoping to get af then ttc. But because I'm such a poas addict even a bfn is exciting lol.

Oh I'm sorry spud I'm so stupid sorry 😢 hoping u get back to normal routine soon

 

[wearsunlight]

Hey lovelies
I'm new here so bare with me

As title suggests I am ttc and have been since miscarriage in oct anyway we have really gone for it this month sorry if tmi and I am now officially in the dreaded tww

Anyone else in similar time frame ?

I'm in the same time frame. ^^ Also miscarried in October. This is our first month trying (doc said we had to wait 3 cycles).

I took a couple of tests this past weekend that came back with BFNs, but I think it was too early to take them. AF should arrive Saturday or Sunday, so I guess I'll know for sure in a few days.

If I get a BFN, I'll be happy living through your BFP! Fingers crossed for you!!!

 

[ttcbean2]

Hey lovelies
I'm new here so bare with me

As title suggests I am ttc and have been since miscarriage in oct anyway we have really gone for it this month sorry if tmi and I am now officially in the dreaded tww

Anyone else in similar time frame ?

I'm in the same time frame. ^^ Also miscarried in October. This is our first month trying (doc said we had to wait 3 cycles).


I took a couple of tests this past weekend that came back with BFNs, but I think it was too early to take them. AF should arrive Saturday or Sunday, so I guess I'll know for sure in a few days.

If I get a BFN, I'll be happy living through your BFP! Fingers crossed for you!!!

Hey what lovely words from you thank you lots of baby dust to you and I'm sorry to hear you had same bad time in October x
I have today had some spotting it would be like way early for witchy but I guess have to accept I'm out this month will let u know if it gets any worse if it doesn't will be testing on Saturday fingers crossed for u xx

 

[MrsWhite]

I had a mmc (blighted ovum) in mid-October, and on the 31st finally gave in and took the misoprostol (or whatever it is). That wasn't a planned pregnancy but it got us thinking we wanted to go ahead and eventually try for our third and final kid, but I wasn't ready immediately. We started NTNP pretty much right after but I was almost avoiding the peak times because I wasn't ready (but I still didn't want to put chemicals in my body to prevent it either since we wanted to TTC soon). So a few months of that and now this is our first real month TTC (or will be as soon as AF shows any day now). I have the clearblue advanced digital OPKs on order, and I am going to temp and everything. I'm prepared for a long haul though, since it took us 6-7 cycles to TTC my second child. I am a day "late" (my cycles can be anywhere between 27-32 days) on CD 29, but BFN this morning so I think my AF will be coming in the next few days. I didn't hit the peak times very well this cycle so I didn't really have high hopes.
Good luck to everyone...this is a hard thing, isn't it? I feel so anxious, I think subconsciously I have been partially avoiding TTC because I am afraid it'll happen again. Anyone else feel that way?

 

[wearsunlight]

Good luck to everyone...this is a hard thing, isn't it? I feel so anxious, I think subconsciously I have been partially avoiding TTC because I am afraid it'll happen again. Anyone else feel that way?

^^ SO HARD. I'm in a constant state of torn between being so very hopeful that I'm pregnant again and terrified of getting a BFP because I know I'll be holding my breath every step of the way, just "waiting" and worrying about miscarrying again.

It's funny, now that we're TTC again, I'm depressed about my miscarriage more than I was over the last month or two when were weren't yet able to try again. All of this waiting just brings back all of those feelings and makes them raw and painful all over again.

Wondering if I'm pregnant, will be pregnant, will get AF, won't get AF consumes all of my thoughts all of the time!

 

[Fleur828815]

Looks like I'm not alone in feeling this way. After a miscarriage in October, we gave it our all the last 2 months but it didn't work. This month I'm just fed up of trying because I am convinced it'll be yet another BFN or worse, another miscarriage.

Good luck to all of you, hope you'll be getting your sticky BFPs soon.

 

[Dill]

With my most recent pregnancy, after the "big" MC/MMC/D&C/total mess, I couldn't even get very excited when I saw the BFP. All I could do was stress out about it. My husband actually got angry about me because I kept saying I wasn't going to get my hopes up, and he shouldn't either, etc., because it was very early and I could lose it. I did end up losing it (chemical), but wonder how much of it was just because I stressed out about it so badly. :-/

 

[Spudtastic]

Ttcbean - no worries. I get very excited when someone posts bfp and I've misread posts a few times Lol.

I feel the same. I'm scared to get pregnant again if I have to go through a mc/mmmc/erpc again. I've told dh that if I get pregnant again we are not telling anyone until I can't hide it anymore.

Yesterday the doctor did say that there is no evidence that conceiving before first af after a mc results in an unhealthy pregnancy or more mc so I think I'm going to start ttc straight away.

 

[Fleur828815]

Dill, it's easy to blame ourselves but I'm sure stress had nothing to do with your chemical. Imagine how many women throughout the world are much more stressed and have healthy pregnancies.

Spudtastic, yay for getting the green light to TTC! Hope it won't take long till you get a sticky BFP.

I'm still TTC my first baby and it makes me really sad that I'll never again be excited and optimistic about a pregnancy. DH realised this morning that I'll be VERY stressed if I do manage to fall pregnant again, but I can't see myself being all serene and confident about things working out.

 

[Spudtastic]

Dill - yes we can't blame ourselves. for my july mc I found out a couple of weeks after my af was late. By this time I'd eaten stuff I shouldn't have and had a few drinks more than I normally would have one night. I completely blamed myself. With this last mmc I knew when I ovulated and felt pregnant straight away. I did everything exactly as I should have done. I Was even relaxed as dd was conceived one cycle after a mc too so I thought it was meant to be. And I still lost my baby.

Fleur - I really wish you a happy and healthy pregnancy when you get your bfp. I'm sad to hear that you won't experience a relaxed pregnancy. I was relaxed with dd. I won't ever feel that way again if I get pregnant. I get so sick in pregnancy too. Not much fun. When I had my mmc I was still getting bad morning sickness 4 weeks after the baby died so morning sickness won't be a comfort either.

 

[Fleur828815]

Fleur - I really wish you a happy and healthy pregnancy when you get your bfp. I'm sad to hear that you won't experience a relaxed pregnancy. I was relaxed with dd. I won't ever feel that way again if I get pregnant. I get so sick in pregnancy too. Not much fun. When I had my mmc I was still getting bad morning sickness 4 weeks after the baby died so morning sickness won't be a comfort either.

Thank you Spudtastic. How cruel to still be getting symptoms after the baby has died. I hope you won't stress too much during your next pregnancy.