TTC and Beyond!

[morganwhite7]

Colette- Haha it was a hard decision I had to make, and I GUESSSS it was worth the extra money.. LOL. It's nice though, she's actually just the human resources manager, so she jacks up my pay shhhhhh

 

[Cowgirl07]

Morgan I would kill my mil if she was my boss. I can only stand her in small doses.

 

[morganwhite7]

Oh same here haha, I don't EVER see her. She doesn't leave her office. No one is very fond of her in my department either, so that makes it fun haha

 

[RobertRedford]

Morgan, I second that. how on earth do you work with your MIL? Do you work closely beside her or just in the same company?

Katrina, Let me make a list of who we need to send gifts to and who wants to participate, then I will send a message out about how much the contribution could be, etc. I'm sorry that you're having a rough time. You WILL get your BFP and we will be here to support you along the way. I know how hard it is, and know that your bfp will be here soon. much love and hugs.

To whom ever asked about a relationshp with babydaddy (sorry, i forget!) We're going to try. I think. We have a long history that hasn't always been great, but the plan is to try. Now its trying to figure out logistics. I just signed a lease on my new house, so I will probably wait until my lease is up (july) to move into his house. We bought it together a few years ago, i picked it out, picked paint colors, furniture, etc, and LOVE IT. so I would love to live there again. And, I would like the baby to have just one nursery and one place to call home. He, really luckily and fortunately, is really well off financially and we've already discussed me possibly stopping working and staying home with the baby at least for a year, if we do make it work. Regardless of us being together, he plans to be 100% there for the baby. He has an almost 5 y.o from a previous relationship who he has 90% of the time (shes with her mom only one day a week) and I want the kiddos to have a close relationship and truly be raised as "siblings". We're leaving after work today for a weekend up at the vacation home. Its been treated as storage for a few years and I want to start getting it cleaned up (HELLO GARAGE SALE!) to make room for the baby, but also just get rid of stuff that hasn't been used in years.

he has been extremely supportive so far. he paid off my car today (halllleeelluujaah) because he didn't think I should be worried about a car payment while pregnant, and keeps asking if he can get me anything.

I had these grand ideas of telling him in a cute way this weekend if i was pregnant. His daugther LOOOVES arts and crafts, so I got a plain white shirt, and used stencils to write "im going to be a big sister" on it, then i was going to hide it from him and take herto do an art project in the kitchen while he was working in the garage. I was going to let her paint and decorate the shirt, ad then send her in to "help daddy" wearing the shirt. too late. oh well

sorry. that was a novel!

 

[morganwhite7]

I hope she can't see what I type on my computer!!!!!! Hahaha I just had a mini panic attack...! I think she'd have said something by now lol

Amanda- She is just HR so no we never really see her over here. But we're on the same floor/building. She's lazy, doesn't come over here much. Is too busy chugging cup after cup of coffee lol

Okay I'm being mean now.. Lol!

 

[Cowgirl07]

Amanda-I think its awesome your baby is going to have a sibling. I hope it works out and I am glad he wants to be in the picture!
I think I just need to stay off the ltttc boards they freak me out

 

[clynn11]

Amanda- Eeeeep! I'm seriously so stoked for you right now. It sounds like whether you two make things work or not that you have a supportive 'baby daddy' who is gonna be there for his babe no matter what.

 

[RobertRedford]

Thanks. I'm sloooowwwwlllly getting excited. He's a really good papa to his daughter. She adores him and is spoiled rotten. Whether we are together or not, I know he will be a good daddy to this little bean.

 

[RobertRedford]

side note, funny story. At dinner the other night his daughter goes "Im 4-1/4" and I said "youre so old. how old will you be next year?" (assuming she was gonna say 5) and she goes "16!"

 

[Cowgirl07]

Awe she sounds cute!

 

[Kiamaria83]

Ahhh amanda he sounds so cute! Definitely a keeper. You're like cinderella .
Morgan. I guess its worth it for the extra pennies.
Cass yes I spoke to hubby. He is such a dick! He thinks its a good idea. Sometimes I just want to kick him repeatedly in the balls. Stupid mummys boy.
I think pregnancy is making me evil!

 

[RobertRedford]

katrina, shes really funny and cute! Since she was really little, you could say "what does a cow say? what does a horse say? what does a pig say? etc." and she will rattle off the sounds. if you ask "what does daddy say?" she goes "I LOVE YOU!"

if you ask her about boys she goes "no dating until im 30" or will sometimes say "no kisses, only hugs"

 

[Cowgirl07]

Awe I would love to see that! So if I make to California I guess we will be shopping not riding horse

 

[RobertRedford]

Awe I would love to see that! So if I make to California I guess we will be shopping not riding horse

i'll videotape it and post it on fb

and if you come to california, you can ride my horses for me. the poor things are going to get neglected for a while. although his daughter is juuuust starting to get into horses and really wants to ride, so i may start giving her lessons on the pony. problem is pny needs to be schooled before kids are on her and i am sooo not comfortable riding, even now.

 

[Cowgirl07]

Maybe I won't need a not pregnant consolation trip

 

[RobertRedford]

Maybe I won't need a not pregnant consolation trip

lol, true! shopping it is

 

[Ingodshand]

Awwww Britt I love Rehoboth, not all trashy and flooded with senior trippers!! Lol. Have fun.. I'm so jelly.. I miss the beach, having serious withdrawals!! Can't wait to bask in the sun with my babe.. if it would just STAY warm!!

EPO 1350mg cold-pressed softgels are ordered and on their way!!! I'm so ready to self-induce I can't take it!! Only 3 weeks til I can start! Lol

Has your doctor said anything about using the EPO? My doctor told me not to take anything like that since I had a previous c-section?

 

[Ingodshand]

Katrina- I only took Femara and I my only side effect was so nauseous but that was during my third cycle. First two were smooth sailing!

Also, I had basically given up on being able to have another baby after everything we went through and our losses. BUT here we are and Evan is due in about 3 weeks. Miracles do happen and you will get yours!!!!

 

[morganwhite7]

Amanda- ugh he sounds like Prince Charming!! I hope it all works out love, sounds like it could really end up great. Not that it matters now, but is ex gonna flip shit when he finds out or are you gonna keep it on the dl?

Sarah- I did mention it to my doc.. He said it has been recommended by MWs for years, not much research, but that if anything it could help soften my cervix if taken at full term.. Hopefully making the VBAC easier with a more favorable cervix, and hopefully putting me into labor without having to be induced. So I'm not sure if I'll take as much internally since it doesn't have much medical evidence backing it up. I just really want my VBAC! Have you heard it could increase risk of scar rupture?

 

[RobertRedford]

Morgan, im going to keep it on the dl and he will still flip a shit.