I'm not really sure how common this is but I'd love to connect with anyone in the same situation.
DH is only 24 but is unable to get or keep an erection. He's been to the Dr many times but in the past the doctor just tried to say it was stress and he never would help. Recently, since DH first told the Dr 2 years ago the Dr is now trying to help.
DH recently also told me that this has always been a problem for him. Since he didnt tell me in the beginning that he has always had these difficulties I always thought it was because of me.
I think that there is a possibility that this is psychological - that DH is so afraid of it "not working" that it's all he focuses on during foreplay and therefore is unable to get in the mood fully.
The problem has become so bad that we really aren't intimate at all. We only have sex every couple months - usually everyday for a week then he detaches from me.
Erectile Dysfunction really is a hard thing to deal with for both husband and wife, so that's why I'd love to find a buddy. My husband won't even talk to me about it. I'm at a point where I don't even bring it up because it will become a fight.
I never thought as a young wife that I would have this to deal with. I feel unloved because we aren't intimate - I don't even feel like hearing "I love you". When we got married - the Dr said that the problem had always been stress related and it would eventually go away. Now I spend my time worried because I can't live my entire life like this. Sex and making babies are two very important parts to the marriage I need to have.
DH tried Levitra with no success and he now has Viagra to try. But at this point the pressure and the distance between us are proving to be too much to handle and "trying" is just out of the question.
How can I even think about TTC? I just feel like Im ready for a baby.. even though we're clearly not. It seems so selfish but DH and I did discuss babies and he wants one too.
DH is only 24 but is unable to get or keep an erection. He's been to the Dr many times but in the past the doctor just tried to say it was stress and he never would help. Recently, since DH first told the Dr 2 years ago the Dr is now trying to help.
DH recently also told me that this has always been a problem for him. Since he didnt tell me in the beginning that he has always had these difficulties I always thought it was because of me.
I think that there is a possibility that this is psychological - that DH is so afraid of it "not working" that it's all he focuses on during foreplay and therefore is unable to get in the mood fully.
The problem has become so bad that we really aren't intimate at all. We only have sex every couple months - usually everyday for a week then he detaches from me.
Erectile Dysfunction really is a hard thing to deal with for both husband and wife, so that's why I'd love to find a buddy. My husband won't even talk to me about it. I'm at a point where I don't even bring it up because it will become a fight.
I never thought as a young wife that I would have this to deal with. I feel unloved because we aren't intimate - I don't even feel like hearing "I love you". When we got married - the Dr said that the problem had always been stress related and it would eventually go away. Now I spend my time worried because I can't live my entire life like this. Sex and making babies are two very important parts to the marriage I need to have.
DH tried Levitra with no success and he now has Viagra to try. But at this point the pressure and the distance between us are proving to be too much to handle and "trying" is just out of the question.
How can I even think about TTC? I just feel like Im ready for a baby.. even though we're clearly not. It seems so selfish but DH and I did discuss babies and he wants one too.